"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey guys.

Things are going pretty good between me and my g/f. However she always tells me how confused she is about me, and how she hasn't "figured me out" Which I'm guessing is a good thing.

The other thing is though is that everytime she tries to give me a hand job or bj, i never come....and I know for a fact that I don't have an erectile dysfunction. I won't bore you with those details.

Is it possible that I just can't perform in situations like this? Because I know for sure I have no erectile dysfunction.

Thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It's hard to blow it if she is bobbing her head on it in fast foward fashion (at least for me). Have be more sensual - slow it down, practice deep-throating. Another good way is to just about blow it after having sex, but then come out and have her finish with her mouth! Too much fun.
 
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She probably is just inexperienced and awkward. When she's doing something that is working for you, let her know. You have to communicate with her about what feels good and does the job and what doesn't. It's best to focus on what she does right because if you tell her you like something she will do that more. Use verbal cues to get her to slow down by saying things like "I really like it when you go slow" or whatever. So, if she's doing something that just doesn't do anything for you, use phrases like that to get her to do something different. Always keep it positive, though, otherwise she will be discouraged and not want to do it for you.
 
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You could even watch a sensual porno together and say... "that looks like fun, lets try it" and then try the position/technique. This is ofcourse assuming that your gf isn't to uptight to watch a porno with you so guage her interest in it beforehand ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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THAT'S GOOOOOD... THAT MEANS SHE'S INEXPERIENCED CUZ SHE NEVER DONE IT B4... SO PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT MEANING SOON WILL COME THE GOOD BJs.... ALSO, BJs R BETTER THAN HANDJOBS.... HANDJOBS KINDA SUCK
 
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