"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hey guys.

Things are going pretty good between me and my g/f. However she always tells me how confused she is about me, and how she hasn't "figured me out" Which I'm guessing is a good thing.

The other thing is though is that everytime she tries to give me a hand job or bj, i never come....and I know for a fact that I don't have an erectile dysfunction. I won't bore you with those details.

Is it possible that I just can't perform in situations like this? Because I know for sure I have no erectile dysfunction.

Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's hard to blow it if she is bobbing her head on it in fast foward fashion (at least for me). Have be more sensual - slow it down, practice deep-throating. Another good way is to just about blow it after having sex, but then come out and have her finish with her mouth! Too much fun.
 
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She probably is just inexperienced and awkward. When she's doing something that is working for you, let her know. You have to communicate with her about what feels good and does the job and what doesn't. It's best to focus on what she does right because if you tell her you like something she will do that more. Use verbal cues to get her to slow down by saying things like "I really like it when you go slow" or whatever. So, if she's doing something that just doesn't do anything for you, use phrases like that to get her to do something different. Always keep it positive, though, otherwise she will be discouraged and not want to do it for you.
 
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You could even watch a sensual porno together and say... "that looks like fun, lets try it" and then try the position/technique. This is ofcourse assuming that your gf isn't to uptight to watch a porno with you so guage her interest in it beforehand ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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THAT'S GOOOOOD... THAT MEANS SHE'S INEXPERIENCED CUZ SHE NEVER DONE IT B4... SO PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT MEANING SOON WILL COME THE GOOD BJs.... ALSO, BJs R BETTER THAN HANDJOBS.... HANDJOBS KINDA SUCK
 
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