"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Screening questions
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
KontrollerX
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If she answers with "I don't know" or something vague you next her ass immediately.
If a girl doesn't answer "I'd get an abortion" she is an automatic next.
estions should be threw in the garbage heap where they belong. I do not belittle atheists, so why do all the rabble rousing trouble makers get on here. There are some really honest people on here looking for really honest questions. There are two on here at this very moment. Can God make a rectangular circle. Can God create a triangle circle. If these questions merit an answer, then I am out of here..
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
- Are you a food lover?
- How open minded are you about food on a scale of 1 to 1,000?
- If we were eating and you had the choice of camel or turkey which would you go for?
- Would you try something atleast once?
- What's one place you'd travel too if you had the choice?
- Would you ever live in the woods for a week long?
- Are you indoorsy or outdoorsy?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
i wanted to be straight with her...so i said "23"...immediately she took the opportunity to disqualify me..."you're too young for me"... and for that all attraction towards me was lost.
you're supposed to disqualify yourself like "I'm too young for you" so you can still have her attracted to you.
anyway, all yall screening questions are too screening, i was looking for something more along the lines of:
"are you adventurous?"
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
You have to naturally screen...
Why are you asking a chick "Are you adventurous"? is it because a method told you to screen...you need to know why your doing what your doing.
For me the reason I naturally screen women is because I honestly want a hot chick who is actually cool. There are so many hot women that you literally need to look beyond there looks to find the coolest ones.
I'm curious about the chick to see if she meets my standards, I want to dictate how I want her to be when around me that way she acts like that around me. I want her to figure out how to attract me.
The thing is you don't want to be coming from a "GAMEY" frame, ok if you want to entertain yourself and tell a chick that your gay or disqualify yourself so be it...but ACTUAL qualifying should be natural and real in order for the chick to actually want to figure you out.
That way they are sitting home trying to rationalize things...