Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Screening questions
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
KontrollerX
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If she answers with "I don't know" or something vague you next her ass immediately.
If a girl doesn't answer "I'd get an abortion" she is an automatic next.
estions should be threw in the garbage heap where they belong. I do not belittle atheists, so why do all the rabble rousing trouble makers get on here. There are some really honest people on here looking for really honest questions. There are two on here at this very moment. Can God make a rectangular circle. Can God create a triangle circle. If these questions merit an answer, then I am out of here..
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
- Are you a food lover?
- How open minded are you about food on a scale of 1 to 1,000?
- If we were eating and you had the choice of camel or turkey which would you go for?
- Would you try something atleast once?
- What's one place you'd travel too if you had the choice?
- Would you ever live in the woods for a week long?
- Are you indoorsy or outdoorsy?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
i wanted to be straight with her...so i said "23"...immediately she took the opportunity to disqualify me..."you're too young for me"... and for that all attraction towards me was lost.
you're supposed to disqualify yourself like "I'm too young for you" so you can still have her attracted to you.
anyway, all yall screening questions are too screening, i was looking for something more along the lines of:
"are you adventurous?"
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
You have to naturally screen...
Why are you asking a chick "Are you adventurous"? is it because a method told you to screen...you need to know why your doing what your doing.
For me the reason I naturally screen women is because I honestly want a hot chick who is actually cool. There are so many hot women that you literally need to look beyond there looks to find the coolest ones.
I'm curious about the chick to see if she meets my standards, I want to dictate how I want her to be when around me that way she acts like that around me. I want her to figure out how to attract me.
The thing is you don't want to be coming from a "GAMEY" frame, ok if you want to entertain yourself and tell a chick that your gay or disqualify yourself so be it...but ACTUAL qualifying should be natural and real in order for the chick to actually want to figure you out.
That way they are sitting home trying to rationalize things...