"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Screening questions
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
KontrollerX
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If she answers with "I don't know" or something vague you next her ass immediately.
If a girl doesn't answer "I'd get an abortion" she is an automatic next.
estions should be threw in the garbage heap where they belong. I do not belittle atheists, so why do all the rabble rousing trouble makers get on here. There are some really honest people on here looking for really honest questions. There are two on here at this very moment. Can God make a rectangular circle. Can God create a triangle circle. If these questions merit an answer, then I am out of here..
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
- Are you a food lover?
- How open minded are you about food on a scale of 1 to 1,000?
- If we were eating and you had the choice of camel or turkey which would you go for?
- Would you try something atleast once?
- What's one place you'd travel too if you had the choice?
- Would you ever live in the woods for a week long?
- Are you indoorsy or outdoorsy?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
i wanted to be straight with her...so i said "23"...immediately she took the opportunity to disqualify me..."you're too young for me"... and for that all attraction towards me was lost.
you're supposed to disqualify yourself like "I'm too young for you" so you can still have her attracted to you.
anyway, all yall screening questions are too screening, i was looking for something more along the lines of:
"are you adventurous?"
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
You have to naturally screen...
Why are you asking a chick "Are you adventurous"? is it because a method told you to screen...you need to know why your doing what your doing.
For me the reason I naturally screen women is because I honestly want a hot chick who is actually cool. There are so many hot women that you literally need to look beyond there looks to find the coolest ones.
I'm curious about the chick to see if she meets my standards, I want to dictate how I want her to be when around me that way she acts like that around me. I want her to figure out how to attract me.
The thing is you don't want to be coming from a "GAMEY" frame, ok if you want to entertain yourself and tell a chick that your gay or disqualify yourself so be it...but ACTUAL qualifying should be natural and real in order for the chick to actually want to figure you out.
That way they are sitting home trying to rationalize things...