"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Screening questions
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
KontrollerX
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If she answers with "I don't know" or something vague you next her ass immediately.
If a girl doesn't answer "I'd get an abortion" she is an automatic next.
estions should be threw in the garbage heap where they belong. I do not belittle atheists, so why do all the rabble rousing trouble makers get on here. There are some really honest people on here looking for really honest questions. There are two on here at this very moment. Can God make a rectangular circle. Can God create a triangle circle. If these questions merit an answer, then I am out of here..
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
- Are you a food lover?
- How open minded are you about food on a scale of 1 to 1,000?
- If we were eating and you had the choice of camel or turkey which would you go for?
- Would you try something atleast once?
- What's one place you'd travel too if you had the choice?
- Would you ever live in the woods for a week long?
- Are you indoorsy or outdoorsy?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
i wanted to be straight with her...so i said "23"...immediately she took the opportunity to disqualify me..."you're too young for me"... and for that all attraction towards me was lost.
you're supposed to disqualify yourself like "I'm too young for you" so you can still have her attracted to you.
anyway, all yall screening questions are too screening, i was looking for something more along the lines of:
"are you adventurous?"
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
You have to naturally screen...
Why are you asking a chick "Are you adventurous"? is it because a method told you to screen...you need to know why your doing what your doing.
For me the reason I naturally screen women is because I honestly want a hot chick who is actually cool. There are so many hot women that you literally need to look beyond there looks to find the coolest ones.
I'm curious about the chick to see if she meets my standards, I want to dictate how I want her to be when around me that way she acts like that around me. I want her to figure out how to attract me.
The thing is you don't want to be coming from a "GAMEY" frame, ok if you want to entertain yourself and tell a chick that your gay or disqualify yourself so be it...but ACTUAL qualifying should be natural and real in order for the chick to actually want to figure you out.
That way they are sitting home trying to rationalize things...