"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheNewGuy

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Alright, I found this HB9 on MySpace that lives in my town. I ask her for her screenname, she gives it to me. I wait 4 days and message her. I keep it short, throwing in some C&F. Convo below

me: hey
her: heyyy
me: whats up
her: nothing much, you?
me: nm, bored
me: you going to <party>?
her: nope
her: take me lol
her: im <her name>
me: heh, good introduction
her: hahahahah
<Me introducing myself with some C&F>
me: so <party> is this sunday
me: we're gonna go
her: what time?
<I explain where/when all that stuff>
her: whats your last name?
me: stalker!
me: lol ;)
me: <my last name>
her: haha send me ur myspace again
me: yet again, stalkerrr
her: hahahhaa shh
me: i knew it
me: i'm so smart
me: so it definetly isn't <myspace link>
her: haha thanks bud
me: alright, i gotta go
her: alright peaceee ttyl
me: whats your number? i'll call you about <party> later

<Couple minutes pass>

me: you there?
me: alright, w/e
me: i'm out

<I leave, when I come back I see...>

her: hhhh
her: agggfuhfighfdsg
her: <her number>
This is probably one of the hottest chicks I've seen, never mind actually had a chance with, and she asked me to take her to the party.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I didn't think the wait rule applied for instant messenging but I could see how it works in that situation also.

A few suggestions:

-You should have tried to get her phone number instead of screen name.

-When she said, "nothing much, you" rather than saying, "nm, bored" you might have tried a different response. I suggest you should have said something like, "Oh I just got back from some errands" or "I am about to head out". This will spark interest, she will most likely ask you where did you get back from, or where you are going to go out. At this point you can keep the game going by not letting her in on what you did / are going to do (even if it's not true).

If she kept on persisting on the above topic, you could also throw in some more of the C&F stalker stuff you were using.

And I just forgot what I was going to say after this so...I will edit it if I remember.
 

Smooth Player 056

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The conversation sounds AFC to me, you had a little c&f but it was more like s&r (stupid and rediculous). Well tell us how the party goes.




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TheNewGuy

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Thanks for the advice. I'll remember that "just heading out" line. IMHO, if it's C&F or S&R or S&M or D&Z, I still got the number, and a hottt date to a party.

To each his own, I guess.
 

08aisaac

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Nah, it doesn't sound AFC. AFC is a state of mind, not a classification of actions.

If you re in a DJ state of mind, you can't make an AFC move, because it takes an AFC to pull an AFC move. But the question is are you a DJ?

But yeah sounds like you could hook up with her at the party.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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