Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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TheNewGuy

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Alright, I found this HB9 on MySpace that lives in my town. I ask her for her screenname, she gives it to me. I wait 4 days and message her. I keep it short, throwing in some C&F. Convo below

me: hey
her: heyyy
me: whats up
her: nothing much, you?
me: nm, bored
me: you going to <party>?
her: nope
her: take me lol
her: im <her name>
me: heh, good introduction
her: hahahahah
<Me introducing myself with some C&F>
me: so <party> is this sunday
me: we're gonna go
her: what time?
<I explain where/when all that stuff>
her: whats your last name?
me: stalker!
me: lol ;)
me: <my last name>
her: haha send me ur myspace again
me: yet again, stalkerrr
her: hahahhaa shh
me: i knew it
me: i'm so smart
me: so it definetly isn't <myspace link>
her: haha thanks bud
me: alright, i gotta go
her: alright peaceee ttyl
me: whats your number? i'll call you about <party> later

<Couple minutes pass>

me: you there?
me: alright, w/e
me: i'm out

<I leave, when I come back I see...>

her: hhhh
her: agggfuhfighfdsg
her: <her number>
This is probably one of the hottest chicks I've seen, never mind actually had a chance with, and she asked me to take her to the party.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I didn't think the wait rule applied for instant messenging but I could see how it works in that situation also.

A few suggestions:

-You should have tried to get her phone number instead of screen name.

-When she said, "nothing much, you" rather than saying, "nm, bored" you might have tried a different response. I suggest you should have said something like, "Oh I just got back from some errands" or "I am about to head out". This will spark interest, she will most likely ask you where did you get back from, or where you are going to go out. At this point you can keep the game going by not letting her in on what you did / are going to do (even if it's not true).

If she kept on persisting on the above topic, you could also throw in some more of the C&F stalker stuff you were using.

And I just forgot what I was going to say after this so...I will edit it if I remember.
 

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The conversation sounds AFC to me, you had a little c&f but it was more like s&r (stupid and rediculous). Well tell us how the party goes.




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Thanks for the advice. I'll remember that "just heading out" line. IMHO, if it's C&F or S&R or S&M or D&Z, I still got the number, and a hottt date to a party.

To each his own, I guess.
 

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Nah, it doesn't sound AFC. AFC is a state of mind, not a classification of actions.

If you re in a DJ state of mind, you can't make an AFC move, because it takes an AFC to pull an AFC move. But the question is are you a DJ?

But yeah sounds like you could hook up with her at the party.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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