"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Scenario for you. Hot girl.

What do you do?


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Amazing

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OK, scenario for you guys.

You get a call from a buddy saying he is with a girl who broke up with a bf recently. she is hot - big t, nice a, everything. he proposes you three meet up for a meal and then you drive her home across town.

you don't have car insurance, you'd be driving someone else's car across town you don't really know. but you have GPS.

You were planning on watching Lakers - Cavaliers, game you wanted to watch.. and you wanted to eat and go to the gym after.


What do you do, there is a poll.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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slickaz

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Id eat game gym

Firstly i got sh!t to do today, and i know theres a million other chics out there with big T nice A and a nice face. so if not her itll be someone else. im not drivin outta my way to meet a new chic. not unless i was despo and didnt have my 3 plates already.

second she just broke up with a dude, so she probably man hating, or wants a rebound dude thatll take her out and make her feel good till the ex comes back.i dont want be that guy.

and lastly, if my dude can bring her to a house party of a club later that week and she can meet me there that'd be the best scenario for a good hook up. not a threeway catch up. coz you dont know if you're buddy is keen for her too and using you as a wingman
 

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No, he is not interested in her. Meaning this is for you.



You don't really have other options ATM. Some girls you go way back with that you can try calling up again..but not something you have around any time you want.
 

oakraiderz2

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Youre 29 with no insurance, someone elses care and you live in ATL....I think you know what to do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'd go to the meet and talk to her. Drive her back to her place and drop her off. Then go home and beat it thinking about her wishing I did something different with her.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Youre 29 with no insurance, someone elses care and you live in ATL....I think you know what to do.

yep. Not take advice from idiots who assume too much.

Thanks for playing.
 
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