"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Scenario for you. Hot girl.

What do you do?


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Amazing

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OK, scenario for you guys.

You get a call from a buddy saying he is with a girl who broke up with a bf recently. she is hot - big t, nice a, everything. he proposes you three meet up for a meal and then you drive her home across town.

you don't have car insurance, you'd be driving someone else's car across town you don't really know. but you have GPS.

You were planning on watching Lakers - Cavaliers, game you wanted to watch.. and you wanted to eat and go to the gym after.


What do you do, there is a poll.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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slickaz

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Id eat game gym

Firstly i got sh!t to do today, and i know theres a million other chics out there with big T nice A and a nice face. so if not her itll be someone else. im not drivin outta my way to meet a new chic. not unless i was despo and didnt have my 3 plates already.

second she just broke up with a dude, so she probably man hating, or wants a rebound dude thatll take her out and make her feel good till the ex comes back.i dont want be that guy.

and lastly, if my dude can bring her to a house party of a club later that week and she can meet me there that'd be the best scenario for a good hook up. not a threeway catch up. coz you dont know if you're buddy is keen for her too and using you as a wingman
 

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No, he is not interested in her. Meaning this is for you.



You don't really have other options ATM. Some girls you go way back with that you can try calling up again..but not something you have around any time you want.
 

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Youre 29 with no insurance, someone elses care and you live in ATL....I think you know what to do.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'd go to the meet and talk to her. Drive her back to her place and drop her off. Then go home and beat it thinking about her wishing I did something different with her.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Youre 29 with no insurance, someone elses care and you live in ATL....I think you know what to do.

yep. Not take advice from idiots who assume too much.

Thanks for playing.
 
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