Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Scenario for you. Hot girl.

What do you do?


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Amazing

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OK, scenario for you guys.

You get a call from a buddy saying he is with a girl who broke up with a bf recently. she is hot - big t, nice a, everything. he proposes you three meet up for a meal and then you drive her home across town.

you don't have car insurance, you'd be driving someone else's car across town you don't really know. but you have GPS.

You were planning on watching Lakers - Cavaliers, game you wanted to watch.. and you wanted to eat and go to the gym after.


What do you do, there is a poll.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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slickaz

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Id eat game gym

Firstly i got sh!t to do today, and i know theres a million other chics out there with big T nice A and a nice face. so if not her itll be someone else. im not drivin outta my way to meet a new chic. not unless i was despo and didnt have my 3 plates already.

second she just broke up with a dude, so she probably man hating, or wants a rebound dude thatll take her out and make her feel good till the ex comes back.i dont want be that guy.

and lastly, if my dude can bring her to a house party of a club later that week and she can meet me there that'd be the best scenario for a good hook up. not a threeway catch up. coz you dont know if you're buddy is keen for her too and using you as a wingman
 

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No, he is not interested in her. Meaning this is for you.



You don't really have other options ATM. Some girls you go way back with that you can try calling up again..but not something you have around any time you want.
 

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Youre 29 with no insurance, someone elses care and you live in ATL....I think you know what to do.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'd go to the meet and talk to her. Drive her back to her place and drop her off. Then go home and beat it thinking about her wishing I did something different with her.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Youre 29 with no insurance, someone elses care and you live in ATL....I think you know what to do.

yep. Not take advice from idiots who assume too much.

Thanks for playing.
 
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