"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Scenario for you. Hot girl.

What do you do?

  • Drive to meet the girl, eat and drive her home

    Votes: 2 28.6%

  • Go as planned, eat, game, gym.

    Votes: 5 71.4%
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OK, scenario for you guys.

You get a call from a buddy saying he is with a girl who broke up with a bf recently. she is hot - big t, nice a, everything. he proposes you three meet up for a meal and then you drive her home across town.

you don't have car insurance, you'd be driving someone else's car across town you don't really know. but you have GPS.

You were planning on watching Lakers - Cavaliers, game you wanted to watch.. and you wanted to eat and go to the gym after.


What do you do, there is a poll.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Id eat game gym

Firstly i got sh!t to do today, and i know theres a million other chics out there with big T nice A and a nice face. so if not her itll be someone else. im not drivin outta my way to meet a new chic. not unless i was despo and didnt have my 3 plates already.

second she just broke up with a dude, so she probably man hating, or wants a rebound dude thatll take her out and make her feel good till the ex comes back.i dont want be that guy.

and lastly, if my dude can bring her to a house party of a club later that week and she can meet me there that'd be the best scenario for a good hook up. not a threeway catch up. coz you dont know if you're buddy is keen for her too and using you as a wingman
 
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No, he is not interested in her. Meaning this is for you.



You don't really have other options ATM. Some girls you go way back with that you can try calling up again..but not something you have around any time you want.
 
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Youre 29 with no insurance, someone elses care and you live in ATL....I think you know what to do.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'd go to the meet and talk to her. Drive her back to her place and drop her off. Then go home and beat it thinking about her wishing I did something different with her.
 
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oakraiderz2 said:
Youre 29 with no insurance, someone elses care and you live in ATL....I think you know what to do.
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yep. Not take advice from idiots who assume too much.

Thanks for playing.
 
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