"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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saying goodbye..

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I met this girl early this year.We started off as friends, my only intentions were sex , not a relationship anyways long story short me and her have casual platonic sex, I told her that I do not like her but she is starting to get too attached and is always texting me and emailing me she knows I dont care about her because i show it and i tell her that my career is more important to me and that I dont like commitment and were just friends , whenever we are together i always give advice on how she should get a bf that loves her and treats her good , I have looked in the bible and in the hall of fame but I really don't have the words and I don't know how to tell her to stop calling me and texting me ? the bible really doesnt explain anything ( or did I miss a spot?) or how do you guys deal with telling someone thanks for sex but now good bye..
this girl knows that I like to play girls but i just don't want anything to do with her anymore .

it sounds like a stupid question but its starting to stress me out a lil bit .

usually with all the other girls I meet they kinda get the hint and I ignore them but this girl no matter how much I ignore her she still keeps going and going Other girls just blow me off but I really dont care bacause I can go back and say well you had sex with me why'd you do it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WaterTiger

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("platonic"...I'm assuming you meant "plutonic" witch means NO sexual contact. But that doesn't make sense for your posting.)

How to say good-bye is easy.

"Look, we had some fun but it's over! I don't want to see you anymore. Go find some one else to pester. SHOOOOOO! BU-BYE!"

Also, stop treating her like a pal and hanging out with her. It's giving her ideas that you want to be with her.
 

Crank_It_Up

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tell her you are really into threesomes, but were just too shy to tell her. If she gets other girls to join you, great, if not, she's gone. If she persists, go this route. She calls "wanna go out tonight"? You reply, "only if you can bring another girl that wants to share".

Yeah, I know, I'm sick.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

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