"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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saying goodbye..

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decadentdestruction

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I met this girl early this year.We started off as friends, my only intentions were sex , not a relationship anyways long story short me and her have casual platonic sex, I told her that I do not like her but she is starting to get too attached and is always texting me and emailing me she knows I dont care about her because i show it and i tell her that my career is more important to me and that I dont like commitment and were just friends , whenever we are together i always give advice on how she should get a bf that loves her and treats her good , I have looked in the bible and in the hall of fame but I really don't have the words and I don't know how to tell her to stop calling me and texting me ? the bible really doesnt explain anything ( or did I miss a spot?) or how do you guys deal with telling someone thanks for sex but now good bye..
this girl knows that I like to play girls but i just don't want anything to do with her anymore .

it sounds like a stupid question but its starting to stress me out a lil bit .

usually with all the other girls I meet they kinda get the hint and I ignore them but this girl no matter how much I ignore her she still keeps going and going Other girls just blow me off but I really dont care bacause I can go back and say well you had sex with me why'd you do it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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("platonic"...I'm assuming you meant "plutonic" witch means NO sexual contact. But that doesn't make sense for your posting.)

How to say good-bye is easy.

"Look, we had some fun but it's over! I don't want to see you anymore. Go find some one else to pester. SHOOOOOO! BU-BYE!"

Also, stop treating her like a pal and hanging out with her. It's giving her ideas that you want to be with her.
 
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tell her you are really into threesomes, but were just too shy to tell her. If she gets other girls to join you, great, if not, she's gone. If she persists, go this route. She calls "wanna go out tonight"? You reply, "only if you can bring another girl that wants to share".

Yeah, I know, I'm sick.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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