"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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saying goodbye..

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I met this girl early this year.We started off as friends, my only intentions were sex , not a relationship anyways long story short me and her have casual platonic sex, I told her that I do not like her but she is starting to get too attached and is always texting me and emailing me she knows I dont care about her because i show it and i tell her that my career is more important to me and that I dont like commitment and were just friends , whenever we are together i always give advice on how she should get a bf that loves her and treats her good , I have looked in the bible and in the hall of fame but I really don't have the words and I don't know how to tell her to stop calling me and texting me ? the bible really doesnt explain anything ( or did I miss a spot?) or how do you guys deal with telling someone thanks for sex but now good bye..
this girl knows that I like to play girls but i just don't want anything to do with her anymore .

it sounds like a stupid question but its starting to stress me out a lil bit .

usually with all the other girls I meet they kinda get the hint and I ignore them but this girl no matter how much I ignore her she still keeps going and going Other girls just blow me off but I really dont care bacause I can go back and say well you had sex with me why'd you do it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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WaterTiger

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("platonic"...I'm assuming you meant "plutonic" witch means NO sexual contact. But that doesn't make sense for your posting.)

How to say good-bye is easy.

"Look, we had some fun but it's over! I don't want to see you anymore. Go find some one else to pester. SHOOOOOO! BU-BYE!"

Also, stop treating her like a pal and hanging out with her. It's giving her ideas that you want to be with her.
 

Crank_It_Up

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tell her you are really into threesomes, but were just too shy to tell her. If she gets other girls to join you, great, if not, she's gone. If she persists, go this route. She calls "wanna go out tonight"? You reply, "only if you can bring another girl that wants to share".

Yeah, I know, I'm sick.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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