"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Say something about the person above you

thefonz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 14, 2004
Messages
1,143
Reaction score
13
Age
44
Location
Pittsburgh
^ Has 5 different names, each ****ier than the last
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

penkitten

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2001
Messages
8,256
Reaction score
236
Age
49
Location
at our house
^ name reminds me of the leather jacket wearing "ayeeee" yelling cool guy from happy days that jumped a shark from a ramp in hawaii or some location like that.
 

Ever onward

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 11, 2004
Messages
968
Reaction score
3
^ deserves a rep point for posting a pic and thus proving he's the real deal
 

shydude

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 27, 2005
Messages
569
Reaction score
2
Location
New York City
^^^^ is a guy that I dont know:D All I know is that he is from nebraska and he is 28 or 29 years old. And i think that hes other sosuave account is "dreamx" :D ~~
 

aBAzLLnA

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 21, 2002
Messages
736
Reaction score
0
He's a shy dude that lives somewhere far, where only the rich and fame will get you, somewhere where people don't sleep and where girls are all yours.

Where the hell is that? :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

shydude

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 27, 2005
Messages
569
Reaction score
2
Location
New York City
^Wonderlan!!^^ He is a aBAzLLnA(I dont get the name) That has 714 posts. Guy that gave me reputation, And deserves a prop from me :)
 

flippinfreak

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 3, 2006
Messages
891
Reaction score
7
Location
Canada
^ should really learn how to spell the word look
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Create Reality

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 29, 2002
Messages
1,415
Reaction score
7
Location
California
^ lives in some third-world nation where they still try to "possess" women. Obviously hasn't been exposed to the amount of feminism the Americas have. Lucky guy.
 

shydude

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 27, 2005
Messages
569
Reaction score
2
Location
New York City
^^ Still trying to create reality. Doesnt like his own, tries to steal someone elses. Lives in california were he gets to bang celebrities! What can I say "Lucky bastard"
 

penkitten

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2001
Messages
8,256
Reaction score
236
Age
49
Location
at our house
^ recently found out he was allergic to bunnies, which might not be a big deal or will it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

wavejams007

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 9, 2004
Messages
876
Reaction score
3
Age
39
Location
jacksonville, FL
^Gio's biggest fan, nice all around person, although she does have an *inexplicable*:p bias towards gio.
 

shydude

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 27, 2005
Messages
569
Reaction score
2
Location
New York City
^^^Say bad stuff about people!! He is a master don juan in the forums but in real life he is just a beginner. probably wants to get under me so he can say bad stuff about me, but the problem is, there is nothing wrong about it, I am all good.
 

flippinfreak

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 3, 2006
Messages
891
Reaction score
7
Location
Canada
^^^strikes me as a shydude who thinks he knows stuff but for some odd reason remains an unkown quantity at this time.
<<<Is having fun giving people bad rep points and enjoying the bad attention it brings.
 
Joined
Apr 16, 2006
Messages
72
Reaction score
1
Location
texas
^^i dont know anything about him
<<doesnt have anything truely negative to say about anyone on this board so far
 

Skel

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 5, 2003
Messages
1,721
Reaction score
10
^ oh come on, I had to get you! He was mysteriously 18 and now hes 22. Boy does time fly!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Top