"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Sanjaya...
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
djSlvt
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Men hate him because he displays his alpha male status but he's small as fvck, so it's ok to hate him, physically he's something almost anyone can knock out.
He shows PUA sh1t all over, back when he was on American Idol.
Now, I don't remember if I had biff with OP, or whatever it was. But it is really obvious what he is if you not an AFC.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BR4JMyTdd-8
Because he is a celebrity. Today's young chickies of the western society worship Hollywood and everything about it. He is the IT guy right now and if chicks get to sleep with him, it for the purpose of stroking their ego (cue girl squeal: " ohh yess I want Sanjaya to fvck me like a hor and then when that is over and done with I will go back home and transform back into the good girl who doesn't put out until the third date and nobody but myself and 5 of my best girlfriends will ever know what a dirty deed i have done tee hee".Raikojo17 said:... is a homo. nuff said
do women consider men like this just eye candy?
why if they dig masculinity do they go crazy over guys like this?
it's mind boggling.
If you are celebrity you are essentially like a chick, you can go to a club and within 5 mins be fvcking some stranger (of your choosing) in the bathroom.
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Please dont tell me about how your mother or sister or whoever is different, this only applies to average or above looking young women living average lives in average relationships, your 70-year-old mom or fat sister dont count.
Whenever you are talking to a flaky woman or are getting no sex from your girl, ask yourself how the interaction would be different if you were brad pitt or x hunk guy, then reconsider the value of the relationship.
The world would be a terrible place without prositutes and porn.
As for me...I watch the show and I like Blake Lewis...the beatboxer.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I only watch two TV shows regularly...American Idol and Lost. I'm not as much into American Idol this year...but last year was my favorite season. I'm a huge fan of the nicest "Nice Guy" ever on the show...Elliott Yamin. He was dorky looking last year (has since gotten a make over and veneers) but hot damn can he sing. He reminds me of Stevie Wonder...and Yamin's vocal ability is just amazing. He's going to be singing his first single on the results show tomorrow night. I bought his CD from iTunes because of the bonus songs...Whiter Shade of Pale...and he kicks ass on that song...just incredible.Raikojo17 said:^^lol yea. but i think they really need to listent to simon more. all the people he hates he hates for a reason.
because they suck.
Ironically...Simon told Elliott last season that he was potentially the best male vocalist they ever had on the show. Don't say that within earshot of any Clay Aiken fans, though...lol...they get mighty snarky. :crackup:
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Wyldfire said:
Peacocking. He's a PUA, happy go lucky. Sure you can throw in the celebrity thing, but you somehow need to get to be a celebrity, other American Idols don't have it the way he has it. It it his everything, his body language, his eye language, the way he speaks, the guy is a PUA, and he used as much of it as he could. PUA is a state of mind and he is natural.
No doubt Wyldfire is curiously aroused by the guy. Why that.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
djSlvt
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I think so many people (men) dislike him is because he's showing off too much alpha male stuff off of him, yet, physically he is small, goofy, and not much masculine. So for your average guy who don't get why women into him, hating him make him bigger or whatever. Plus you get people who want to fit it, so they hate him because others hate him. That's my theory.
I think the young girls like him so much because he is really confident and they think he's cute. Even when the judges and the media bashed him relentlessly he didn't let it get to him and was still confident in himself.