"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sanjaya...
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
djSlvt
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Men hate him because he displays his alpha male status but he's small as fvck, so it's ok to hate him, physically he's something almost anyone can knock out.
He shows PUA sh1t all over, back when he was on American Idol.
Now, I don't remember if I had biff with OP, or whatever it was. But it is really obvious what he is if you not an AFC.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BR4JMyTdd-8
Because he is a celebrity. Today's young chickies of the western society worship Hollywood and everything about it. He is the IT guy right now and if chicks get to sleep with him, it for the purpose of stroking their ego (cue girl squeal: " ohh yess I want Sanjaya to fvck me like a hor and then when that is over and done with I will go back home and transform back into the good girl who doesn't put out until the third date and nobody but myself and 5 of my best girlfriends will ever know what a dirty deed i have done tee hee".Raikojo17 said:... is a homo. nuff said
do women consider men like this just eye candy?
why if they dig masculinity do they go crazy over guys like this?
it's mind boggling.
If you are celebrity you are essentially like a chick, you can go to a club and within 5 mins be fvcking some stranger (of your choosing) in the bathroom.
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Please dont tell me about how your mother or sister or whoever is different, this only applies to average or above looking young women living average lives in average relationships, your 70-year-old mom or fat sister dont count.
Whenever you are talking to a flaky woman or are getting no sex from your girl, ask yourself how the interaction would be different if you were brad pitt or x hunk guy, then reconsider the value of the relationship.
The world would be a terrible place without prositutes and porn.
As for me...I watch the show and I like Blake Lewis...the beatboxer.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I only watch two TV shows regularly...American Idol and Lost. I'm not as much into American Idol this year...but last year was my favorite season. I'm a huge fan of the nicest "Nice Guy" ever on the show...Elliott Yamin. He was dorky looking last year (has since gotten a make over and veneers) but hot damn can he sing. He reminds me of Stevie Wonder...and Yamin's vocal ability is just amazing. He's going to be singing his first single on the results show tomorrow night. I bought his CD from iTunes because of the bonus songs...Whiter Shade of Pale...and he kicks ass on that song...just incredible.Raikojo17 said:^^lol yea. but i think they really need to listent to simon more. all the people he hates he hates for a reason.
because they suck.
Ironically...Simon told Elliott last season that he was potentially the best male vocalist they ever had on the show. Don't say that within earshot of any Clay Aiken fans, though...lol...they get mighty snarky. :crackup:
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Wyldfire said:
Peacocking. He's a PUA, happy go lucky. Sure you can throw in the celebrity thing, but you somehow need to get to be a celebrity, other American Idols don't have it the way he has it. It it his everything, his body language, his eye language, the way he speaks, the guy is a PUA, and he used as much of it as he could. PUA is a state of mind and he is natural.
No doubt Wyldfire is curiously aroused by the guy. Why that.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
djSlvt
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I think so many people (men) dislike him is because he's showing off too much alpha male stuff off of him, yet, physically he is small, goofy, and not much masculine. So for your average guy who don't get why women into him, hating him make him bigger or whatever. Plus you get people who want to fit it, so they hate him because others hate him. That's my theory.
I think the young girls like him so much because he is really confident and they think he's cute. Even when the judges and the media bashed him relentlessly he didn't let it get to him and was still confident in himself.