Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Because he is a celebrity. Today's young chickies of the western society worship Hollywood and everything about it. He is the IT guy right now and if chicks get to sleep with him, it for the purpose of stroking their ego (cue girl squeal: " ohh yess I want Sanjaya to fvck me like a hor and then when that is over and done with I will go back home and transform back into the good girl who doesn't put out until the third date and nobody but myself and 5 of my best girlfriends will ever know what a dirty deed i have done tee hee".Raikojo17 said:... is a homo. nuff said
do women consider men like this just eye candy?
why if they dig masculinity do they go crazy over guys like this?
it's mind boggling.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I only watch two TV shows regularly...American Idol and Lost. I'm not as much into American Idol this year...but last year was my favorite season. I'm a huge fan of the nicest "Nice Guy" ever on the show...Elliott Yamin. He was dorky looking last year (has since gotten a make over and veneers) but hot damn can he sing. He reminds me of Stevie Wonder...and Yamin's vocal ability is just amazing. He's going to be singing his first single on the results show tomorrow night. I bought his CD from iTunes because of the bonus songs...Whiter Shade of Pale...and he kicks ass on that song...just incredible.Raikojo17 said:^^lol yea. but i think they really need to listent to simon more. all the people he hates he hates for a reason.
because they suck.
Wyldfire said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.