"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Sanjaya...
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
djSlvt
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Men hate him because he displays his alpha male status but he's small as fvck, so it's ok to hate him, physically he's something almost anyone can knock out.
He shows PUA sh1t all over, back when he was on American Idol.
Now, I don't remember if I had biff with OP, or whatever it was. But it is really obvious what he is if you not an AFC.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BR4JMyTdd-8
Because he is a celebrity. Today's young chickies of the western society worship Hollywood and everything about it. He is the IT guy right now and if chicks get to sleep with him, it for the purpose of stroking their ego (cue girl squeal: " ohh yess I want Sanjaya to fvck me like a hor and then when that is over and done with I will go back home and transform back into the good girl who doesn't put out until the third date and nobody but myself and 5 of my best girlfriends will ever know what a dirty deed i have done tee hee".Raikojo17 said:... is a homo. nuff said
do women consider men like this just eye candy?
why if they dig masculinity do they go crazy over guys like this?
it's mind boggling.
If you are celebrity you are essentially like a chick, you can go to a club and within 5 mins be fvcking some stranger (of your choosing) in the bathroom.
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Please dont tell me about how your mother or sister or whoever is different, this only applies to average or above looking young women living average lives in average relationships, your 70-year-old mom or fat sister dont count.
Whenever you are talking to a flaky woman or are getting no sex from your girl, ask yourself how the interaction would be different if you were brad pitt or x hunk guy, then reconsider the value of the relationship.
The world would be a terrible place without prositutes and porn.
As for me...I watch the show and I like Blake Lewis...the beatboxer.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I only watch two TV shows regularly...American Idol and Lost. I'm not as much into American Idol this year...but last year was my favorite season. I'm a huge fan of the nicest "Nice Guy" ever on the show...Elliott Yamin. He was dorky looking last year (has since gotten a make over and veneers) but hot damn can he sing. He reminds me of Stevie Wonder...and Yamin's vocal ability is just amazing. He's going to be singing his first single on the results show tomorrow night. I bought his CD from iTunes because of the bonus songs...Whiter Shade of Pale...and he kicks ass on that song...just incredible.Raikojo17 said:^^lol yea. but i think they really need to listent to simon more. all the people he hates he hates for a reason.
because they suck.
Ironically...Simon told Elliott last season that he was potentially the best male vocalist they ever had on the show. Don't say that within earshot of any Clay Aiken fans, though...lol...they get mighty snarky. :crackup:
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Wyldfire said:
Peacocking. He's a PUA, happy go lucky. Sure you can throw in the celebrity thing, but you somehow need to get to be a celebrity, other American Idols don't have it the way he has it. It it his everything, his body language, his eye language, the way he speaks, the guy is a PUA, and he used as much of it as he could. PUA is a state of mind and he is natural.
No doubt Wyldfire is curiously aroused by the guy. Why that.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
djSlvt
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I think so many people (men) dislike him is because he's showing off too much alpha male stuff off of him, yet, physically he is small, goofy, and not much masculine. So for your average guy who don't get why women into him, hating him make him bigger or whatever. Plus you get people who want to fit it, so they hate him because others hate him. That's my theory.
I think the young girls like him so much because he is really confident and they think he's cute. Even when the judges and the media bashed him relentlessly he didn't let it get to him and was still confident in himself.