Salsa

[Murk]

I think I'm going to take salsa classes. My ex gf did Salsa with her friends and they always tried to get me and my friends to join them. Apparently hardly any men go and you need a man to do the male part of the dance. So basically the women there all share the limited men and they constantly try to recruit.

I think it's a win-win, there won't be many fat girls (I hope), there will be some Latinas, it gives me something to do each week, I learn a new skill.

Has anyone thought about this or even been to Salsa or any dance classes? I'm looking to get out of my comfort zone.

 

[KindredSpiritzz]

I think its a great idea, i always wanted to learn that myself. Got a buddy that learned how and in the bar he's always dragging women out on the dance floor to "teach" them. Gets him noticed and its a good approach avenue

 

[powersize]

I think I'm going to take salsa classes. My ex gf did Salsa with her friends and they always tried to get me and my friends to join them. Apparently hardly any men go and you need a man to do the male part of the dance. So basically the women there all share the limited men and they constantly try to recruit.

I think it's a win-win, there won't be many fat girls (I hope), there will be some Latinas, it gives me something to do each week, I learn a new skill.

Has anyone thought about this or even been to Salsa or any dance classes? I'm looking to get out of my comfort zone.

2 days ago signed in for salsa and bachata classes which should start soon. will select the one with more chicks in the group

 

[2Rocky]

Dancing skill is always appreciated by women. The ability to lead, to have rhythm, to have physical stamina,,,perfect audition for a sex partner...

 

[Visionist]

I took classes here in Italy for a good while. I didn't like the music itself, I prefer to hear English lyrics. I eventually quit lmao.

There were quite a few dudes, and some of them were alphas and cleaned up. None of them could out-Chad our instructors though. Both dance champions, both over six feet, both ripped like Hell. The girls were all over them like mosquitoes, shít was crazy.

The real eye opener was attending Latin dance nights at the club they all frequented. Almost every girl was in shape. The dudes were pretty much all Chads. It felt like an elite club for the best looking people to dance and hook up. Like I said, real eye opener. Here's a video I shot in 2015:

https://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=10205415463769349&id=1332390782

 

[GearsGod310]

I think that's a great idea.
I love listening to Salsa music. Can't really dance it.
I'm a really good cumbia dancer I know how to lead a turn a women and everything to cumbia music.
When you know how to dance you also have way more fun and options at clubs. Women love it. Can't go wrong witb your decision

 

[BeExcellent]

I think I'm going to take salsa classes. My ex gf did Salsa with her friends and they always tried to get me and my friends to join them. Apparently hardly any men go and you need a man to do the male part of the dance. So basically the women there all share the limited men and they constantly try to recruit.

I think it's a win-win, there won't be many fat girls (I hope), there will be some Latinas, it gives me something to do each week, I learn a new skill.

Has anyone thought about this or even been to Salsa or any dance classes? I'm looking to get out of my comfort zone.

Get good. You’ll never lack for female interest. My ex BF was an amazing salsa dancer of 20+ years...as am I. You can thank me later.

Cheers

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I think I'm going to take salsa classes. My ex gf did Salsa with her friends and they always tried to get me and my friends to join them. Apparently hardly any men go and you need a man to do the male part of the dance. So basically the women there all share the limited men and they constantly try to recruit.

I think it's a win-win, there won't be many fat girls (I hope), there will be some Latinas, it gives me something to do each week, I learn a new skill.

Has anyone thought about this or even been to Salsa or any dance classes? I'm looking to get out of my comfort zone.

Even the "fat" girls in salsa will be "fun" if they have a good attitude. You'll meet alot of men and women who enjoy life and enjoy people. It's alot of fun.

As a man, I found that you can get an incredible energy exchange ( physically validated ), without sexual penetration. Women will choose you, will like to dance with you, will like your body, your energy and they will like you.

It's a real big life boost and a lot of fun.

 

[sangheilios]

This is something that I looked into in the past but never really followed through with, I just wasn't interested enough at the time. I did and currently live in an area that is predominately hispanic, so there were quite a few events related to salsa/latin dance. One thing to look into would be salsa social events. There were a few in my area that would have lessons for even total beginners prior to the social event for like an hour and then they would host the main event afterwards. There was a cover charge but nothing at all ridiculous, comparable to any decent night club with live music, and of course they would have a bartender, some food, etc. This has the potential to be female dominated if you are taking classes but with socials I'd imagine that many people are going as a couple/group.

However, I feel that it would be better to pursue this with the intent of actually wanting to try out something new instead of going there specifically to meet women. It's like taking yoga just because you think there might be hot women there and you aren't actually there to practice it.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This is something that I looked into in the past but never really followed through with, I just wasn't interested enough at the time. I did and currently live in an area that is predominately hispanic, so there were quite a few events related to salsa/latin dance. One thing to look into would be salsa social events. There were a few in my area that would have lessons for even total beginners prior to the social event for like an hour and then they would host the main event afterwards. There was a cover charge but nothing at all ridiculous, comparable to any decent night club with live music, and of course they would have a bartender, some food, etc. This has the potential to be female dominated if you are taking classes but with socials I'd imagine that many people are going as a couple/group.

However, I feel that it would be better to pursue this with the intent of actually wanting to try out something new instead of going there specifically to meet women. It's like taking yoga just because you think there might be hot women there and you aren't actually there to practice it.

Take yoga for fitness not ladies.

 

[sangheilios]

Take yoga for fitness not ladies.

That's what I mean. I a while ago I heard a woman say that she felt it was awkward when men would go there specifically to meet women and not to learn yoga, I guess the vibe may be very obvious but who knows.

It's like going to the gym to get in shape but by chance you see an attractive woman and you have an opportunity, there is nothing wrong with that. However, if you use the gym as a pick up joint it just comes across as cringey.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

That's what I mean. I a while ago I heard a woman say that she felt it was awkward when men would go there specifically to meet women and not to learn yoga, I guess the vibe may be very obvious but who knows.

It's like going to the gym to get in shape but by chance you see an attractive woman and you have an opportunity, there is nothing wrong with that. However, if you use the gym as a pick up joint it just comes across as cringey.

Agree. If your a gym rat though you will eventually chat up others. Some females.

 

[andreihaha]

I find latino dances quite sexual and a good cardio activity.
Been thinking about it, will do.

 

[powersize]

Man... just came back from my first salsa class...it is worth every second I spent and it is packed of good looking chicks. It is win-win situation - you are learning how to dance which will help you later with new chicks while dancing with those new chicks. Those men who advise that dance classes are the perfect places to meet new girls definitely know what they are speaking about.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Man... just came back from my first salsa class...it is worth every second I spent and it is packed of good looking chicks. It is win-win situation - you are learning how to dance which will help you later with new chicks while dancing with those new chicks. Those men who advise that dance classes are the perfect places to meet new girls definitely know what they are speaking about.

It was fun and a confidence booster.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

But why need confidence boosters? Where does that come from?

Additional confidence makes for more favorable outcomes. Why wouldn't a man want a better life?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Just whisper in your partners ear "if you think I move good on this dancefloor you should see the way I move in the bedroom" and give her a smirk

 

[BeExcellent]

Just whisper in your partners ear "if you think I move good on this dancefloor you should see the way I move in the bedroom" and give her a smirk

Don’t do that. I dance salsa and I’m really, really good. Don’t. Super cheesy and creepy.

You just be cool, strong silent type, and dance. Your smile and your vibe will say everything as you get good. Be mysterious. Trust me.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Very good idea, OP.

 

[2Rocky]

Just whisper in your partners ear "if you think I move good on this dancefloor you should see the way I move in the bedroom" and give her a smirk

ummmm No. It is better to infer that. Or better to underpromise and over deliver. Too many guys over promise. Especially with a woman you have no way of knowing what she wants in the bedroom.