Said why you had sex with me if you weren't serious with me

[backseatjuan]

This girl is kind of a nut, she is 34, can't kiss at all, don't svck. Basically I opened up online dating profile again, this time to find an ltr, on 2nd day I found the girl I want. This nut chick was just many that I messaged. On our 1st date she didn't speak much, couldn't hold conversation, I knew immediately she is not what I want, I just went forward for sex, but didn't let her know that I just want fb. I had sex with her for two nights at my place, each time I was dissapointed - I can jerk off and orgasm better, plus she pushed me every time I snored. I stopped answering her calls and messaging her, thinking she'd get an idea. Then one day I was out and she come up to me, I told her I'm not interested in her, and asked her to leave me alone. Several weeks later, this girl comes to my work, like its nothing, and I tell her straight, wtf are you coming here, I have another girl, I love another girl, I don't want you. She cried and said then why did you had sex with me if it wasn't serious.

 

[Jetleg]

You know whats funny? If it was the irher way around, you'd be creep.

Nothing you can do about it but completly ignoring her and making her feel embarrassed - she loves the drama and your reaction.

 

[parkthebus]

I reckon she is trying to guilt trip you. She's not being rational so don't try to reason with the girl. Respond with actions, not words, if you want her to leave you alone.

 

[marmel75]

That's mostly on you. You don't let women you have no intention of being serious with sleep over.

And if she was so bad then why was there a second time? Are you that desperate? Is this your "soul mate" chick from the other thread you met once and wanted to marry?

 

[logicallefty]

That's mostly on you. You don't let women you have no intention of being serious with sleep over.

And if she was so bad then why was there a second time? Are you that desperate? Is this your "soul mate" chick from the other thread you met once and wanted to marry?

I know, right, cuz we all know that women don't EVER enjoy sex just for sex. In 2015 these woman are so reserved, and they only have sex with their "soul mates" and guys they plan on marrying.

 

[RedBear]

plus she pushed me every time I snored

Lol, you're right to not put up with kind of disrespectful bullsh*t.

 

[marmel75]

Lol, you're right to not put up with kind of disrespectful bullsh*t.

Again, why the fvck is OP allowing some random chick to sleep over?? That's weak sh!t bro...sleep overs are reserved for girlfriends.

Then OP wonders why chick thought he was serious? OP is clueless as to how things work apparently

 

[Alvafe]

Again, why the fvck is OP allowing some random chick to sleep over?? That's weak sh!t bro...sleep overs are reserved for girlfriends.

Then OP wonders why chick thought he was serious? OP is clueless as to how things work apparently

because he don't care? because he want a quickie in the morning? who the **** cares? only thing I normally do is not bring girls to my home, so no surprise shows up on my door can happen, or is on her home or a motel, serious though if she keeps doing this better you start to put the cops after her

 

[backseatjuan]

I brought her over because I wanted to sleep with someone, 1st time she kept waking me because I was snoring, 2nd time she kept waking me up because she wanted sex, we fvcked like 8 times, then I said fvck it and went to sleep.

 

[marmel75]

because he don't care? because he want a quickie in the morning? who the **** cares? only thing I normally do is not bring girls to my home, so no surprise shows up on my door can happen, or is on her home or a motel, serious though if she keeps doing this better you start to put the cops after her

Point is you can't have it both ways. You can't treat a woman like your girlfriend then wonder why she is acting like she is your girlfriend. OP wants his cake and eat it too.

 

[Alvafe]

Point is you can't have it both ways. You can't treat a woman like your girlfriend then wonder why she is acting like she is your girlfriend. OP wants his cake and eat it too.

still not seeing the problem, sure he can work better after this and not let her know where he works and he lives, but then again, if was the otehr way around you guys would say he was the one doing it wrong for wanting more then she is willing to offer now, so serious I don't feel bad about her, and I hope the op will learn to do better next time

 

[Yewki]

Point is you can't have it both ways. You can't treat a woman like your girlfriend then wonder why she is acting like she is your girlfriend. OP wants his cake and eat it too.

Yeah except, after ignoring her completely and explicitly telling her to go away because he wasn't interested... she then shows up to his work weeks (???) later and cries because she thought they were still together.

Her initial confusion was understandable albeit naive, the OP could have handled that better. But her continued confusion after he told her directly face to face, that's 110% on her.

 

[logicallefty]

Ask her....

If sex is serious to her, why didn't she wait until marriage?

haha perfect

 

[El Payaso]

Who cares. The fact is you don't want her anymore. If she bothers you again, just report her to the cops for stalking. She has all the traits of a bunny boiler.

 

[Poon King]

My response to her would of been: "Why not? Sex is FUN isn't it?"

Why did you have sex with her if you weren't serious??? Is that a series question? Hahhahaaha.