"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
*******s - what are the chances of catching any STDs from them covered/uncovered
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
sknudheat said:
Stay away from trickin. :nono:
That being said, there are some females who AREN'T paid wh*res who are more dirty than the ones who get paid. Watch where you stick it. Because once you whip it out, anything can happen.
plate's_empty
Senior Don Juan
That is, if you really want to know and you're not just trolling.
High class escorts are the cleanest women going. The girls on the street and the clubs are the ones you need to be wary of.Your_Royal_Flyness said:
That said why the hell would you get a bl0wj0b with a condom on. Some girls would point blank even refuse to do it. The chance of catching HIV from oral is remote, some say not even possible.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
HalfAddict
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