"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
*******s - what are the chances of catching any STDs from them covered/uncovered
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
sknudheat said:
Stay away from trickin. :nono:
That being said, there are some females who AREN'T paid wh*res who are more dirty than the ones who get paid. Watch where you stick it. Because once you whip it out, anything can happen.
plate's_empty
Senior Don Juan
That is, if you really want to know and you're not just trolling.
High class escorts are the cleanest women going. The girls on the street and the clubs are the ones you need to be wary of.Your_Royal_Flyness said:
That said why the hell would you get a bl0wj0b with a condom on. Some girls would point blank even refuse to do it. The chance of catching HIV from oral is remote, some say not even possible.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
HalfAddict
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