Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
sknudheat said:Hello,
Like above says, anybody have any experience with this? Ive read that its pretty rare to get STDs from oral. but ive also heard that's its possible. How likely is it to get an STD with a condom on vs no condom?
plate's_empty said:On a matter like this, you should probably go talk to someone who can give you good advice, like a Dr.
That is, if you really want to know and you're not just trolling.
High class escorts are the cleanest women going. The girls on the street and the clubs are the ones you need to be wary of.Your_Royal_Flyness said:Stay away from trickin. :nono:
That being said, there are some females who AREN'T paid wh*res who are more dirty than the ones who get paid. Watch where you stick it. Because once you whip it out, anything can happen.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.