Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
sknudheat said:Hello,
Like above says, anybody have any experience with this? Ive read that its pretty rare to get STDs from oral. but ive also heard that's its possible. How likely is it to get an STD with a condom on vs no condom?
plate's_empty said:On a matter like this, you should probably go talk to someone who can give you good advice, like a Dr.
That is, if you really want to know and you're not just trolling.
High class escorts are the cleanest women going. The girls on the street and the clubs are the ones you need to be wary of.Your_Royal_Flyness said:Stay away from trickin. :nono:
That being said, there are some females who AREN'T paid wh*res who are more dirty than the ones who get paid. Watch where you stick it. Because once you whip it out, anything can happen.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.