"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rude?

jadeona13

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Hi. A lot of time when i talk to my girlfriend(not other girls just my girlfriend) she calls me rude.. or brings up things she thinks i do that are rude

heres an example..
my gf called me the other day and the call disconnected. I called back 2 mins later and said ''u called?''..she said that was rude..she knows i hate the phone and said i only say hi no nothing and ok..and i said..'u kno i hate talkin on the phone so be happy with hi no thongi and ok'' and she was like UR SOO RUDEE..

i dont get it i didnt even think i was rude and i never heard anyone call me that but my gf..everyone else says im polite and respectful of others
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tick37

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You need to learn how to use punctuation, but anyway.

Don't let her change you. Once she does, she has the upper hand. Let her complain. If she doesn't like you, then she should find someone more suited for her.
 

sherineo

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ask other people if they think the same bout you being rude ...if not then she's just negging you...play along...

but for god's sakes dont get conscious over what a pv55y told you about you...
 

Mr. Me

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Barring that you're actually rude...

"You're rude/You're mean" = "You're not doing what I want."
 

Dole

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Relating to this,
So what if your girlfriend tells you that she doesn't want to be around you when you are drunk/high(weed) is that acceptable?
If she tells me that I should not drink as much or smoke weed, its actually for the best for my health but I do it anyways cause I am out with friends should I listen to her?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sexual

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I'm with Mr. Me.

I believe though that she's already in control of you. It would be a waste of time to try and fix a bytch that's already taken control of the relationship.
 

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jadeona13 said:
Hi. A lot of time when i talk to my girlfriend(not other girls just my girlfriend) she calls me rude.. or brings up things she thinks i do that are rude

heres an example..
my gf called me the other day and the call disconnected. I called back 2 mins later and said ''u called?''..she said that was rude..she knows i hate the phone and said i only say hi no nothing and ok..and i said..'u kno i hate talkin on the phone so be happy with hi no thongi and ok'' and she was like UR SOO RUDEE..

i dont get it i didnt even think i was rude and i never heard anyone call me that but my gf..everyone else says im polite and respectful of others
I usually make fun of them when they do this and I go "Excuse me" with lots of sarcasm.
 
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