"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jadeona13

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Hi. A lot of time when i talk to my girlfriend(not other girls just my girlfriend) she calls me rude.. or brings up things she thinks i do that are rude

heres an example..
my gf called me the other day and the call disconnected. I called back 2 mins later and said ''u called?''..she said that was rude..she knows i hate the phone and said i only say hi no nothing and ok..and i said..'u kno i hate talkin on the phone so be happy with hi no thongi and ok'' and she was like UR SOO RUDEE..

i dont get it i didnt even think i was rude and i never heard anyone call me that but my gf..everyone else says im polite and respectful of others
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tick37

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You need to learn how to use punctuation, but anyway.

Don't let her change you. Once she does, she has the upper hand. Let her complain. If she doesn't like you, then she should find someone more suited for her.
 

sherineo

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ask other people if they think the same bout you being rude ...if not then she's just negging you...play along...

but for god's sakes dont get conscious over what a pv55y told you about you...
 

Mr. Me

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Barring that you're actually rude...

"You're rude/You're mean" = "You're not doing what I want."
 

Dole

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Relating to this,
So what if your girlfriend tells you that she doesn't want to be around you when you are drunk/high(weed) is that acceptable?
If she tells me that I should not drink as much or smoke weed, its actually for the best for my health but I do it anyways cause I am out with friends should I listen to her?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sexual

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I'm with Mr. Me.

I believe though that she's already in control of you. It would be a waste of time to try and fix a bytch that's already taken control of the relationship.
 

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jadeona13 said:
Hi. A lot of time when i talk to my girlfriend(not other girls just my girlfriend) she calls me rude.. or brings up things she thinks i do that are rude

heres an example..
my gf called me the other day and the call disconnected. I called back 2 mins later and said ''u called?''..she said that was rude..she knows i hate the phone and said i only say hi no nothing and ok..and i said..'u kno i hate talkin on the phone so be happy with hi no thongi and ok'' and she was like UR SOO RUDEE..

i dont get it i didnt even think i was rude and i never heard anyone call me that but my gf..everyone else says im polite and respectful of others
I usually make fun of them when they do this and I go "Excuse me" with lots of sarcasm.
 
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