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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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jadeona13

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Hi. A lot of time when i talk to my girlfriend(not other girls just my girlfriend) she calls me rude.. or brings up things she thinks i do that are rude

heres an example..
my gf called me the other day and the call disconnected. I called back 2 mins later and said ''u called?''..she said that was rude..she knows i hate the phone and said i only say hi no nothing and ok..and i said..'u kno i hate talkin on the phone so be happy with hi no thongi and ok'' and she was like UR SOO RUDEE..

i dont get it i didnt even think i was rude and i never heard anyone call me that but my gf..everyone else says im polite and respectful of others
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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tick37

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You need to learn how to use punctuation, but anyway.

Don't let her change you. Once she does, she has the upper hand. Let her complain. If she doesn't like you, then she should find someone more suited for her.
 

sherineo

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ask other people if they think the same bout you being rude ...if not then she's just negging you...play along...

but for god's sakes dont get conscious over what a pv55y told you about you...
 

Mr. Me

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Barring that you're actually rude...

"You're rude/You're mean" = "You're not doing what I want."
 

Dole

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Relating to this,
So what if your girlfriend tells you that she doesn't want to be around you when you are drunk/high(weed) is that acceptable?
If she tells me that I should not drink as much or smoke weed, its actually for the best for my health but I do it anyways cause I am out with friends should I listen to her?
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Sexual

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I'm with Mr. Me.

I believe though that she's already in control of you. It would be a waste of time to try and fix a bytch that's already taken control of the relationship.
 

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jadeona13 said:
Hi. A lot of time when i talk to my girlfriend(not other girls just my girlfriend) she calls me rude.. or brings up things she thinks i do that are rude

heres an example..
my gf called me the other day and the call disconnected. I called back 2 mins later and said ''u called?''..she said that was rude..she knows i hate the phone and said i only say hi no nothing and ok..and i said..'u kno i hate talkin on the phone so be happy with hi no thongi and ok'' and she was like UR SOO RUDEE..

i dont get it i didnt even think i was rude and i never heard anyone call me that but my gf..everyone else says im polite and respectful of others
I usually make fun of them when they do this and I go "Excuse me" with lots of sarcasm.
 
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