I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
exactly how I pulled it off last night. COD's right. she dropped me off at my car, and we kept talking in her car for a while, then i went in and kissed her on the cheeks, then went in again and started making out, about 4min, then started rubbing her chest, finally over her skirt, she started getting into it, took off her seatbelt and moved more towards me, then moved under her skirt and finally under her panties.COD said:ANY GOOD WAYS OF RUBBING IT..............lol ya with your penis or tongue
I assume you a newbie........ummm feeling a chic up through her clothes is an essential way of "priming" the area in order for her to consider taking it to the next level.
SPECIFICS-id say kissing her for a bit then make your way down there with your hand WHILE you are kissing her some more.
IF she pulls your hand away........it is usually two reasons:
A) its that time of the month (she is menstrating)
B) DOES NOT want to behave like a slut in public, she might be shy.
You may want to take a break.........then gravitate to repeating the process again after your "break" is over. More emphasis on kissing and less on the Vag stroking.
Now if she is displaying signs of "YEAH BABY" when you stroke the crotch thru her clothes........it may be time to slip under her clothing......again this is tricky as not all women are ready for that.........but if met with no resistance.....insert those fingers and continue the kissing.
hope this helps
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Vitanoid said:What if I rub her vag too early?
Laser beams.Vitanoid said:What if I rub her vag too early?
But...I like the idea of molestation.Oxide said:she will set you on fire.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You want to build up some. Anticipation and all.Vitanoid said:What if I rub her vag too early?