Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
exactly how I pulled it off last night. COD's right. she dropped me off at my car, and we kept talking in her car for a while, then i went in and kissed her on the cheeks, then went in again and started making out, about 4min, then started rubbing her chest, finally over her skirt, she started getting into it, took off her seatbelt and moved more towards me, then moved under her skirt and finally under her panties.COD said:ANY GOOD WAYS OF RUBBING IT..............lol ya with your penis or tongue
I assume you a newbie........ummm feeling a chic up through her clothes is an essential way of "priming" the area in order for her to consider taking it to the next level.
SPECIFICS-id say kissing her for a bit then make your way down there with your hand WHILE you are kissing her some more.
IF she pulls your hand away........it is usually two reasons:
A) its that time of the month (she is menstrating)
B) DOES NOT want to behave like a slut in public, she might be shy.
You may want to take a break.........then gravitate to repeating the process again after your "break" is over. More emphasis on kissing and less on the Vag stroking.
Now if she is displaying signs of "YEAH BABY" when you stroke the crotch thru her clothes........it may be time to slip under her clothing......again this is tricky as not all women are ready for that.........but if met with no resistance.....insert those fingers and continue the kissing.
hope this helps
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Vitanoid said:What if I rub her vag too early?
Laser beams.Vitanoid said:What if I rub her vag too early?
But...I like the idea of molestation.Oxide said:she will set you on fire.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You want to build up some. Anticipation and all.Vitanoid said:What if I rub her vag too early?