"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Rubbing the Vag

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What if I rubbed a girl's ***** through her pants? Would she feel it? Any good way of doing it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ANY GOOD WAYS OF RUBBING IT..............lol ya with your penis or tongue

I assume you a newbie........ummm feeling a chic up through her clothes is an essential way of "priming" the area in order for her to consider taking it to the next level.

SPECIFICS-id say kissing her for a bit then make your way down there with your hand WHILE you are kissing her some more.

IF she pulls your hand away........it is usually two reasons:

A) its that time of the month (she is menstrating)

B) DOES NOT want to behave like a slut in public, she might be shy.

You may want to take a break.........then gravitate to repeating the process again after your "break" is over. More emphasis on kissing and less on the Vag stroking.

Now if she is displaying signs of "YEAH BABY" when you stroke the crotch thru her clothes........it may be time to slip under her clothing......again this is tricky as not all women are ready for that.........but if met with no resistance.....insert those fingers and continue the kissing.

hope this helps
 
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COD said:
ANY GOOD WAYS OF RUBBING IT..............lol ya with your penis or tongue

I assume you a newbie........ummm feeling a chic up through her clothes is an essential way of "priming" the area in order for her to consider taking it to the next level.

SPECIFICS-id say kissing her for a bit then make your way down there with your hand WHILE you are kissing her some more.

IF she pulls your hand away........it is usually two reasons:

A) its that time of the month (she is menstrating)

B) DOES NOT want to behave like a slut in public, she might be shy.

You may want to take a break.........then gravitate to repeating the process again after your "break" is over. More emphasis on kissing and less on the Vag stroking.

Now if she is displaying signs of "YEAH BABY" when you stroke the crotch thru her clothes........it may be time to slip under her clothing......again this is tricky as not all women are ready for that.........but if met with no resistance.....insert those fingers and continue the kissing.

hope this helps
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exactly how I pulled it off last night. COD's right. she dropped me off at my car, and we kept talking in her car for a while, then i went in and kissed her on the cheeks, then went in again and started making out, about 4min, then started rubbing her chest, finally over her skirt, she started getting into it, took off her seatbelt and moved more towards me, then moved under her skirt and finally under her panties.

the cops pulled up next to us, so she suggested we move to her place, we both got stuck in traffic but when we finally made it there we were pretty much ripping off each others clothes.

I think the escalation of it was perfect (for me, I'm not good at escalation) but I was reading her body language very well and it was telling me when to move onto the next stage.

ie: I didn't just start groping her breasts, I just grazed them "accidentally" at first.
 
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I had this happen a few weeks ago.

We started making out on my couch, then I worked my way down there. Through her jeans I could tell it was hot and wet, within the next minute she said lets take this over there (pointing to my bed).

The next day she told me she hadn't planned on doing that at all.

The advice given here...works! :yes:
 
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When you are rubbing her without clothes, do not just stick a finger in - never stick it in unless it's wet. so pet and move your hand around, then take 1 finger and move it around the opening up and down.. then that middle finger kinda do the "come here" motion but don't insert it until you are feeling that she is getting really wet.. when you feel she is wet, put the finger in and do the come here hook at a fast speed. then put another finger in and repeat.move them up and down quickly

they will start moaning and bucking i am not really sure how long you want to go for i do it for like 45 secs and stop and either they act like they came or don't I just don't want to jerk them off for longer than that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I like to go for the passionate kiss, move to erotic kisses on the neck, back to her lips and then move down to her bosom while simultaneously rubbing her thighs sensually, slowly working myself up towards the cooch. Once there I rub it nicely and kiss her lips again with sheer raw passion. At this time I may move in and start rubbing her breasts as they'll be nice and hard by then. Play with those a bit, than I like to tip toe myself down her whole body with light kisses, leading my lips towards her jeans, slowly unbuttoning them, kissing the sides of her thighs so ever gently as if my style was pristine, I'll rub her a little more, kiss her a bit, maybe nibble on her ear lobes . Panties should be pretty damn soaked by then.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lol ... Sorry kid the kiddie section is closed today
 
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