You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
exactly how I pulled it off last night. COD's right. she dropped me off at my car, and we kept talking in her car for a while, then i went in and kissed her on the cheeks, then went in again and started making out, about 4min, then started rubbing her chest, finally over her skirt, she started getting into it, took off her seatbelt and moved more towards me, then moved under her skirt and finally under her panties.COD said:ANY GOOD WAYS OF RUBBING IT..............lol ya with your penis or tongue
I assume you a newbie........ummm feeling a chic up through her clothes is an essential way of "priming" the area in order for her to consider taking it to the next level.
SPECIFICS-id say kissing her for a bit then make your way down there with your hand WHILE you are kissing her some more.
IF she pulls your hand away........it is usually two reasons:
A) its that time of the month (she is menstrating)
B) DOES NOT want to behave like a slut in public, she might be shy.
You may want to take a break.........then gravitate to repeating the process again after your "break" is over. More emphasis on kissing and less on the Vag stroking.
Now if she is displaying signs of "YEAH BABY" when you stroke the crotch thru her clothes........it may be time to slip under her clothing......again this is tricky as not all women are ready for that.........but if met with no resistance.....insert those fingers and continue the kissing.
hope this helps
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Vitanoid said:What if I rub her vag too early?
Laser beams.Vitanoid said:What if I rub her vag too early?
But...I like the idea of molestation.Oxide said:she will set you on fire.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You want to build up some. Anticipation and all.Vitanoid said:What if I rub her vag too early?