"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ross Jeffries

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What’s everyone think about Ross Jeffries methods books and pua products,
I am studying n.l.p and interested in hypnosis but know very little of the two.
Anyone used his methods or studied it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What’s everyone think about Ross Jeffries methods books and pua products,
I am studying n.l.p and interested in hypnosis but know very little of the two.
Anyone used his methods or studied it?
Speed Seduction, and any other method/philosoph, from my experienc, is best used as a tool in your overall toolbox, and not as an only system you follow diligently to cover all things dating. If NLP and hypnosis are intereses of yours, I would definitely look into them. Major Mark Cunningham is more hypnosis related. He is one of Ross’ contributors to the SS products.
 

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The best way to learn from any of such guys is to ignore everything they say, read none of their books and buy none of their products. Get all the footage you can of them, model what they DO not what they SAY. Make your own reflections about why or why not something works or doesn't work, or y'know don't give a fvck about theory and just do what works for you.
 

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Speed Seduction, and any other method/philosoph, from my experienc, is best used as a tool in your overall toolbox, and not as an only system you follow diligently to cover all things dating. If NLP and hypnosis are intereses of yours, I would definitely look into them. Major Mark Cunningham is more hypnosis related. He is one of Ross’ contributors to the SS products.
Yeh I was planning on using it supplementary to the mystery method which I use as a base of fundamentals for pick up,
I will look in to mark Cunningham
 

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Check out David Snyder on YouTube. He has some very good stuff.

 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Or you could just act normal, be a fun charming person and understand how to escalate and clean up without any of the BS.

How far the above will take you without anything else has never been greater than today with the amount of guys who are weirdos, desperate, needy, sexually frustrated, socially inept, have no ability to excite a woman or are boring.

You will literally have more women than you know what to do with simply by doing the above. No tricks or gimmicks needed.
 

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What’s everyone think about Ross Jeffries methods books and pua products,
I am studying n.l.p and interested in hypnosis but know very little of the two.
Anyone used his methods or studied it?
I pay my respect given he's one of first few OGs.

If you want nlp, read bandler and go to the source. Check Anthony Robbins. Unlimited power.

I prefer rsd, mystery, David D, but I digress. If it gets you results, let it ride.
 
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