You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It's a perverse society. Tingles, cads and her own disposable income rule. Five odd decades of ceaseless social re-engineering has seen the allure and rewards (top tier puzzy and reverence from the masses) for the responsible civilization builders/innovators gone the way of the dodo. Personally I'm not complaining , I capitalized on it like every other C+ azzhole out there.Scormus said:Sounds perverse to me.
You're expecting a women to act logically.... haven't you learned?Scormus said:Sounds perverse to me.
It kind of undermines becoming the latter if the former is a lot less investment and gets more *****.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Nah he's not stupid. But he has developed a system of game for unattractive guys...because he is one. Dude looks like he just crawled out of a gutter.Colossus said:Keep in mind Roosh's experience with women is largely limited to pickup. Plain and simple. He has developed great systems for meeting women, but they all revolve around 1) nightlife, and 2) cold approaches. He makes a lot of inductive judgments about women (many of which are true), but once again he has a limited frame of personal reference. The guy travels, works on ebooks and monetizing his blogs, and simply tries to lay higher and higher quality (read: hotter, nicer) women. He has no real LTR experience that I'm aware of, and no hobbies or other pursuits that take up more of his time than writing about and profiting from game.
He's not stupid. He's made a decent living out of his "Bang" books and now RoK. He bans anyone on his forum, twitter, or RoK who is outspoken against him (myself included, lol). I think his pickup advice is second to none, but I would take any other broader observations made by him with a grain of salt. He's a career PUA living in Poland.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Don't know if I'd go that far, he's no Brad Pitt but he's probably got 85ish? percent of guys here covered. (no hommus)GS750 said:Nah he's not stupid. But he has developed a system of game for unattractive guys...because he is one. Dude looks like he just crawled out of a gutter.
Maybe poor choice of words. But he's got a lot of money from selling books so I'm sure that helps too. He's put the time in and probably makes a very good living off of it.( . )( . ) said:Don't know if I'd go that far, he's no Brad Pitt but he's probably got 85ish? percent of guys here covered. (no hommus)
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-4k-t5cZMC2E/TiOKccgCRAI/AAAAAAAACfU/eni5PMFCs70/s1600/rooshv.jpg
In other words he's not strikingly ugly enough for grown men to be mimicking chickish behaviour by calling him "unattractive" in the first place in my opinion.
Secondly. Game is game is game. There's no differing schools magic the gathering style and 1 more effective for fugly dudes. It's game. Neg a 9 in this sea of supplicating manginas and she tingles regardless.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I hope so. I've been watching the man closely for over a decade? and for the good he's done for his fellow man, the number of men's eyes he's opened, the burning hatred, abuse and threats he's received from Western orca's and their mangina lap dogs, the failed attempts of lamestream media beatups to making SPLC "hate" lists. Whatever he's made it's not enough.GS750 said:Maybe poor choice of words. But he's got a lot of money from selling books so I'm sure that helps too. He's put the time in and probably makes a very good living off of it.
No doubt the guy has earned whatever he's got. It takes a lot of balls to give up a mainsteam career and go out and pave your own way like he did. I don't agree with everything he says but I cannot disagree with you on these points. The fact that he's on the SPLC radar is just asinine.( . )( . ) said:I hope so. I've been watching the man closely for over a decade? and for the good he's done for his fellow man, the number of men's eyes he's opened, the burning hatred, abuse and threats he's received from Western orca's and their mangina lap dogs, the failed attempts of lamestream media beatups to making SPLC "hate" lists. Whatever he's made it's not enough.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.