I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's a perverse society. Tingles, cads and her own disposable income rule. Five odd decades of ceaseless social re-engineering has seen the allure and rewards (top tier puzzy and reverence from the masses) for the responsible civilization builders/innovators gone the way of the dodo. Personally I'm not complaining , I capitalized on it like every other C+ azzhole out there.Scormus said:Sounds perverse to me.
You're expecting a women to act logically.... haven't you learned?Scormus said:Sounds perverse to me.
It kind of undermines becoming the latter if the former is a lot less investment and gets more *****.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nah he's not stupid. But he has developed a system of game for unattractive guys...because he is one. Dude looks like he just crawled out of a gutter.Colossus said:Keep in mind Roosh's experience with women is largely limited to pickup. Plain and simple. He has developed great systems for meeting women, but they all revolve around 1) nightlife, and 2) cold approaches. He makes a lot of inductive judgments about women (many of which are true), but once again he has a limited frame of personal reference. The guy travels, works on ebooks and monetizing his blogs, and simply tries to lay higher and higher quality (read: hotter, nicer) women. He has no real LTR experience that I'm aware of, and no hobbies or other pursuits that take up more of his time than writing about and profiting from game.
He's not stupid. He's made a decent living out of his "Bang" books and now RoK. He bans anyone on his forum, twitter, or RoK who is outspoken against him (myself included, lol). I think his pickup advice is second to none, but I would take any other broader observations made by him with a grain of salt. He's a career PUA living in Poland.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Don't know if I'd go that far, he's no Brad Pitt but he's probably got 85ish? percent of guys here covered. (no hommus)GS750 said:Nah he's not stupid. But he has developed a system of game for unattractive guys...because he is one. Dude looks like he just crawled out of a gutter.
Maybe poor choice of words. But he's got a lot of money from selling books so I'm sure that helps too. He's put the time in and probably makes a very good living off of it.( . )( . ) said:Don't know if I'd go that far, he's no Brad Pitt but he's probably got 85ish? percent of guys here covered. (no hommus)
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-4k-t5cZMC2E/TiOKccgCRAI/AAAAAAAACfU/eni5PMFCs70/s1600/rooshv.jpg
In other words he's not strikingly ugly enough for grown men to be mimicking chickish behaviour by calling him "unattractive" in the first place in my opinion.
Secondly. Game is game is game. There's no differing schools magic the gathering style and 1 more effective for fugly dudes. It's game. Neg a 9 in this sea of supplicating manginas and she tingles regardless.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I hope so. I've been watching the man closely for over a decade? and for the good he's done for his fellow man, the number of men's eyes he's opened, the burning hatred, abuse and threats he's received from Western orca's and their mangina lap dogs, the failed attempts of lamestream media beatups to making SPLC "hate" lists. Whatever he's made it's not enough.GS750 said:Maybe poor choice of words. But he's got a lot of money from selling books so I'm sure that helps too. He's put the time in and probably makes a very good living off of it.
No doubt the guy has earned whatever he's got. It takes a lot of balls to give up a mainsteam career and go out and pave your own way like he did. I don't agree with everything he says but I cannot disagree with you on these points. The fact that he's on the SPLC radar is just asinine.( . )( . ) said:I hope so. I've been watching the man closely for over a decade? and for the good he's done for his fellow man, the number of men's eyes he's opened, the burning hatred, abuse and threats he's received from Western orca's and their mangina lap dogs, the failed attempts of lamestream media beatups to making SPLC "hate" lists. Whatever he's made it's not enough.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.