"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Roosh V vs Simple Pickup, who would you rather rely on for advice?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
The day I'd rather hang out with one of these old snobs, who talk about hypogamy or whatever it's called and analyze everything.... Is the day I'd rather have a bullet in my head than a brain.
Boring old fvcks...
I have fun with women. Simple pick-up has fun with women... Rosh and all the bloggers like him (even those on this board) give me a damn headache whenever I read their words.
not to mention they are so damn creepy that they get banned from countries for being creepsbukowski_merit said:Let's see.... Bitter old man who analyzes too much vs. A bunch of friends just having fun and pretty much trolling women................
The day I'd rather hang out with one of these old snobs, who talk about hypogamy or whatever it's called and analyze everything.... Is the day I'd rather have a bullet in my head than a brain.
Boring old fvcks...
I have fun with women. Simple pick-up has fun with women... Rosh and all the bloggers like him (even those on this board) give me a damn headache whenever I read their words.
also the fact that they are stormfront type racists, seriously.
dap
Senior Don Juan
Edit: watched some more simple pickup. Is it just me or are these video 75% just these guys getting blown out? Entertaining stuff though.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
He's also a funny dude. I don't necessarily understand all the hate he gets. People here can be many times more cynical than him often enough, especially. He seems to have a good grasp on life.
Never heard of Simple Pickup, though. Probably good stuff, any sharing of information is, in my opinion, a good thing. I read from all types of various authors and compare what I see and apply a mix of materials into my own life, alongside with my own contributions and thoughts. Why debate which is better - why not debate which ones are useful - in which case, both could be useful?
It's like any skill, really. Learn the basic rules then develop on your own from there. Like basketball.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
True, but its clearly obvious that if they did indeed have a warehouse full of fVcks - they still wouldnt give one.dap said:: watched some more simple pickup. Is it just me or are these video 75% just these guys getting blown out? Entertaining stuff though.
Thats what its all about - go have fun, you enjoy picking up? then get out there and have a laugh.
If you go into it serious, you won't come across as fun, and thats a losing battle. Whom wants to be picked up by a serious mr misery?
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the guy bull****s about his travelsPlutoman said:I honestly enjoy most of Roosh's writing, and he's got solid advice in his books.
He's also a funny dude. I don't necessarily understand all the hate he gets. People here can be many times more cynical than him often enough, especially. He seems to have a good grasp on life.
Never heard of Simple Pickup, though. Probably good stuff, any sharing of information is, in my opinion, a good thing. I read from all types of various authors and compare what I see and apply a mix of materials into my own life, alongside with my own contributions and thoughts. Why debate which is better - why not debate which ones are useful - in which case, both could be useful?
he is full of hate towards women
he gives men excuses to not doing well rather than advice
and he is the biggest troll blogger on the internet
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Troll or not, any man/woman/child who pisses off ugly femcvnts more than they already are gets top marks in my book. This was hilarious and the comments that followed all the way through were even better.JackRobin said:and he is the biggest troll blogger on the internet
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again, troll, no pickup advice given at all and *****es about a country sucking rather than the fact he is an ugly **** that has no game( . )( . ) said:Troll or not, any man/woman/child who pisses off ugly femcvnts more than they already are gets top marks in my book. This was hilarious and the comments that followed all the way through were even better.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
sageproduct
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What most guys don't realize/know/remember/care about is that the SimplePickup guys (except Jason) started out as social misfits and weirdos and went through the PUA journey. For 7 YEARS kong and jesse read PUA material, approached a sh1tload, and learned.
They know what helps and what is bullsh1t. They are the purest voice in a generally scummy industry.
Their youtube videos are just for entertainment and inspiration. Project Go is where they actually teach you. I pay $15/month for it, and I'll gladly pay them for the rest of my life whether I'm using their service or not because they've changed my life.
I hang out on sosuave because 1 as of now SP doesn't really offer anything on relationship management and 2 their forums are filled with tools and scumbags, not to mention they're much less activè
sageproduct
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Seriously?
I'm underwhelmed. Haven't read his advice yet, I'm sure there some solid nuggets there, but man...why subject oneself to such heavy doses of negativity? Him b1tching about how women suck is hardly different from femcvnts b1tching about how much they hate men.
And a book How To Cheat On Your Girlfriend? Fwck that. I've followed SimplePickup's content closely enough to know that their, especially Kong's ideology resembles what I want to embody myself.
sageproduct
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-an UNCUT pickup video. daygame, nightgame, girls w/bfs, girls in groups, etc. they pick a different topic each week to foucs on, and they also break down the pickup and tell you stuff about it
-45 min podcast where they share insights and behind-the-scenes stuff about pickup. this has actually become my favorite part lately. so informative, and hilarious and inspiring. you get a better sense of their personalities and lifestyles and what they've been through.
-10 min video where they answer questions that people post about the previous UNCUT pickup video
About once a month, they do a liveshow online where they answer questions.
I've probably done over 500 approaches total, most likely more...started approaching last March
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.