"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Roommate has stolen from me

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OP lives for this drama..

Same goes for all men in the expressive personality quadrant.

Enjoy it Murk
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I went off, loud and shouty. she came out the shower semi nude smelling great and I grilled her. She bought me tobacco back.

I told her I have done so much and she has thrown it in my face. She finally admitted she stole the coke that night but adamant she didn’t take my tobacco that has magically vanished from my yard. Ok cool. She got emotional and shut her door.

I give zero fcks. I am not having a thief in my roof, she said she has put in a bid for that £475k place, good. I’m not a fvcking PlayStation bro I’ll headbutt a prick
 
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billtx49 said:
So you have money for coke and weed, but currently worried about 2 hidden beers and a missing pack of cigs.
Get your mental priorities in line.
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Principles my g, I’m on a forum talking to sub par humans obviously. Where the real g’s at? I can buy her place right now.
 
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She bought me cigs, came home and bounced again.

i Told her I know she stole from me, I told her the girls coming back was tit for tat behaviours

I told her I was gonna bring a girl back tonight she said ok.

I love her and hate her, fvck this I’m getting s girl back tonight
 
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Murkserious said:
She bought me cigs, came home and bounced again.

i Told her I know she stole from me, I told her the girls coming back was tit for tat behaviours

I told her I was gonna bring a girl back tonight she said ok.

I love her and hate her, fvck this I’m getting s girl back tonight
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This is not Alpha behavior.
Dont let your emotion get the best of you.

She got what she wanted from you a reaction
She is very toxic for you get away.

GL
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Murkserious said:
She bought me cigs, came home and bounced again.

i Told her I know she stole from me, I told her the girls coming back was tit for tat behaviours

I told her I was gonna bring a girl back tonight she said ok.

I love her and hate her, fvck this I’m getting s girl back tonight
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Are you 28 or 12? Now I see why women your age date guys my age and say they are tired of the immaturity with guys their own age.
 
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I’ve had a nap and realise none of this sh2t is important. But I will he locking my door and keeping everything in my room. It’s why I hung all new doors with locks, let me utilise that hard work.

Thanks for the subpar responses.
 
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If a woman does too Many strange things or disrespects you its just an incompatibility nothing to figure out.
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I said that to her,

“Sara we are like oil and water, you’re on your own now and when you move out I’m not continuing this friendship”

She said she wanted to remain friends, but my friends don’t rob from my house. I have arranged a date with some chick Kirsty for next Friday, moving on.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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We cant even say
Murkserious said:
I said that to her,

“Sara we are like oil and water, you’re on your own now and when you move out I’m not continuing this friendship”

She said she wanted to remain friends, but my friends don’t rob from my house. I have arranged a date with some chick Kirsty for next Friday, moving on.
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We cant even say anything.
 
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I bounced this whole situation among some friends just now and they said I did the right thing, I’m happy to close this chapter now lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If she bought all your stuff back I don't really see it as a big deal since you haven't actually lost anything. Just let her know that lying to you and stealing from you isn't okay

Murkserious said:
I said that to her,

“Sara we are like oil and water, you’re on your own now and when you move out I’m not continuing this friendship”

She said she wanted to remain friends, but my friends don’t rob from my house. I have arranged a date with some chick Kirsty for next Friday, moving on.
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I give you 1 week lol.
 
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Spaz said:
Too hyped over cigs man.

It might be misplaced or stolen or taken by aliens. It doesn't matter, calm down, no need for useless drama - it degrades a man.

Rational course of action is buying a new pack and then keeping it with you or some place hidden like a drawer.

Problem solved.
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Maybe he should be thanking her for delaying him being able to kill himself quicker.
 
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marmel75 said:
Maybe he should be thanking her for delaying him being able to kill himself quicker.
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Haha

Just different personalities marmel and how they respond on a given situation.

U on the other hand will do as a doer/dominant does.
 
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We kissed and made up. Seshed til 5am, 3 grams and 16 beers later, I’m up at 7:30am en route to work.

Have a blessed week everyone.

The saga continues.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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