"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Romance Movies Mislead People

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Think twice before copying the moves in movies... such as the crazy chases in Crazy, Stupid, Love.

I have copied some stupid moves from movies and ended like a disaster. Have guys had similar experiences?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well - where else do you think people got the idea that telling a girl they loved them would get them anywhere? Only in the movies.
 

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Most of the time, yes, movies can create an AFC.

There are a few out there that are spot on though. "Casino" comes to mind. Dude is a millionaire and runs a Casino but his wife steals money from him and gives it to some actual pimp that she's still in love with.
 

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Peaks&Valleys said:
Most of the time, yes, movies can create an AFC.

There are a few out there that are spot on though. "Casino" comes to mind. Dude is a millionaire and runs a Casino but his wife steals money from him and gives it to some actual pimp that she's still in love with.
lol. as great as casino was - it was hardly a romance movie.
 

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lol. as great as casino was - it was hardly a romance movie.
Oh gotcha, romance movies...

Eh, it could be considered an anti-romance movie.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you think about it, romance movies are about people who are strongly attracted to each other. In other words, for the woman, it's the right guy. And we all know that the right guy can do pretty much whatever he wants and she'll eat it up.
 

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Beta males (well, beta men getting movie credits and money to get Benzes) write this bullsh*t. Beta men breeding beta men.
 

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LeonSK said:
Think twice before copying the moves in movies... such as the crazy chases in Crazy, Stupid, Love.

I have copied some stupid moves from movies and ended like a disaster. Have guys had similar experiences?
Romance movies aren't supposed to lead guys to be alpha, they, along with other types of entertainment, are supposed to play to your fantasy and get to your emotion so you

a) spend money
b) get distracted from the real issues
c) feel good about yourself for 15 min


Movies are scripted where the characters rehearse the lines and act accordingly to move the plot along . To copy them expecting the same result is a little crazy.:rock:
 

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Beta males (well, beta men getting movie credits and money to get Benzes) write this bullsh*t. Beta men breeding beta men.
Right. Plus they want to make money. That would be tough writing something where the woman falls for the Antagonist (bad boy), and leaves the protaganist (guy who buys her dinner) at home curled up in the fetal position waiting for her phone call. And the labeling the movie Romance. Women would run out of the movie theatre screaming "we're not like that!!!" and demanding their money back and giving it horrible reviews.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Music and soundtrack in movies has a huge affect as well. Many scenes you watch would not have the same emotional impact without it.
Music has an anchoring effect. Guys watch these dialogues go on in romantic dramas or comedies and associate those good feelings from the music and scenes to fantasies of recreating it in their lives.

How many guys have cranked up Bryan Adams, Everything I Do I Do It for You, and went over imagined scenarios of white knighting over girls, and gaining intimacy and affection from them. I know I used to. That is some blue pill ingesting stuff.
 

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Thinking you're gonna get laid from those movies equate to thinking you'll beat Van Damme in a fight after watching Bloodsport!
 

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Night-hawk said:
Music and soundtrack in movies has a huge affect as well. Many scenes you watch would not have the same emotional impact without it.
Music has an anchoring effect. Guys watch these dialogues go on in romantic dramas or comedies and associate those good feelings from the music and scenes to fantasies of recreating it in their lives.

How many guys have cranked up Bryan Adams, Everything I Do I Do It for You, and went over imagined scenarios of white knighting over girls, and gaining intimacy and affection from them. I know I used to. That is some blue pill ingesting stuff.
THIS. Music has a very strong effect on everything. What you won't hear is the rushing noise of traffic, the guy cursing at the obnoxious driver that just cut him off, the heavy raindrops landing on the sidewalk, the loud woman on her phone etc.
 

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Thinking you're gonna get laid from those movies equate to thinking you'll beat Van Damme in a fight after watching Bloodsport!
Van Damme movies are like porn.

You only really watch them for the action and the storyline/acting sucks.
 

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People just like good emotions. Most people don't watch movies to see even more depressing things than whats already going on in their own life. They want a nice gooey happy ending. Same with love songs. Sure they're all gooey AFC bullsh!t but we can all relate to them because we've felt those emotions. Those of us who know better may not have acted on them but I bet most men have felt them at one point in time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The more I think about it, the less unrealistic these movies seem. Remember that the male lead is usually Matthew McConaughey, Ryan Reynolds, Channing Tatum, whoever. You think you're going to win the girl over these guys with your negs and C&F, no matter how AFC they might act? Lol.
 

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You don't want to know how much Romance BOOKS mislead women.

Ok, I know you do.



here is the list of what is trending, bestselling right into the minds of the voracious female readers:


1. guy is a billionaire. non negotiable.
2. guy was a cowboy, but now:
3. is a knuckle boxing fighter, may be MMA
4. he is ripped, he is hard muscle
5. he has a big cokk
6. he is dominant and always in charge

now those are not separate. those HAVE to be there as one.


what requirement for the main female lead?

1.she has to be plain (relatable)

that's it.


The women who read this are all around you. They are the plane janes. What does that tell you about expectations? Sure, it is an escape. But they read 5 of those books a week.
 

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Oxide said:
You don't want to know how much Romance BOOKS mislead women.

Ok, I know you do.



here is the list of what is trending, bestselling right into the minds of the voracious female readers:


1. guy is a billionaire. non negotiable.
2. guy was a cowboy, but now:
3. is a knuckle boxing fighter, may be MMA
4. he is ripped, he is hard muscle
5. he has a big cokk
6. he is dominant and always in charge

now those are not separate. those HAVE to be there as one.


what requirement for the main female lead?

1.she has to be plain (relatable)

that's it.


The women who read this are all around you. They are the plane janes. What does that tell you about expectations? Sure, it is an escape. But they read 5 of those books a week.
my ex landlady was a romance 'novelist'. she was a fvcking nightmare - talk about delusions of grandeur - thought she was barbara cartland. plus her husband was the most weak, beta male you could ever find. but he was a provider.

our parting was not amicable.
 

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You don't have to believe in the New World Order conspiracy to see that boys are being deliberately and systematically emasculated. Schools teach them that if they're being bullied, they should cower/hide and/or just shut up and get used to it. Work teaches a man that if he wants to keep his job, he must learn never to question any of the nonsensical orders he's given. Marriage teaches a man that to do anything for himself is the ultimate evil and to do anything for his wife is the ultimate good. Even if those orders too are nonsensical.

While school teaches girls that they're smarter than boys (lie) more caring (lie) more attractive (lie) and so on. They are built up and placed in an artificial position of power over men. And the bimbos don't even realise they're following a script that was carefully laid out by some of this world's most evil industrialists such as Disney et al. Their only goal being to decrease your freedom until it hurts.

And that's before you even get into the addition of estrogen mimickers to babies feeding bottles and food wrappers. Once a man has had all this **** in his system, he's a physical and spiritual wreck. And that's exactly what the powers that be want in order that they can bring in their global corporate government. No ***** whipped man is ever going to fight the corporate dictatorship. There are only a few real men left who will do that and the media wants you to believe they're the bad guys.

Snowden is the biggest hero this world has seen in several decades, the man has stones like space hoppers, but the media tells you he's weak and effeminate (FOR STANDING UP FOR FREEDOM! - the highest calling for any man). The mind control is really quite obvious, when you see it.
 

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i think, from personal experience, celebrity magazines and gossip outlets like MSN mislead people also. I've known girls take on board their stupid narcissistic mantras about looks/age/beauty (40 is the new 30 et al). It wouldn't surprise me that some men can potentially suffer from lack of sexual confidence being around such women. Personally i got really depressed in my early twenties, as it is often women I notice reading into this shvt that made me feel 'old'. Secondly, it distracts both genders from things that matter.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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