"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rollo Tomassi

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Rollo Tomassi

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I don't see why finding me on Emo-Space is such a big deal, all you had to do was ask IQQI, he/she was the first one to look me up (Well, to be fair, WYLDFIRE did too), it's her favorite pastime on NLG - OK, besides talking about herself, her last hangover, and avoiding to post any pictures of herself ever. :D

Also, DEEPDISH and STR8UP know where to find pics from the last 2 years of martini fest,.. :nervous:

I keep a myspace page to have a presence, nothing more. Not really concerned with anything beyond the functional. I suppose I should update it,..hmm.
 

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"Am I the only one who thinks Rollo looks like Brett Favre?"

He looks EXACTLY like him. :nervous:

Anyone that is not a huge football fan that is interested go look up Brett's picture and then watch that video of Rollo playing a guitar without his hat and sunglasses on and you really won't be able to tell the difference.

The resemblance is to the point I'm starting to think we've been getting psychology, life and love tips from a professional NFL player all this time. :crackup:
 

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A few months ago I was amongst a birthday party entourage at a cheesy nightclub at Universal's City Walk, when I bumped into this guy who I confused for Rollo. I was like, "Hey Rollo, what up!" I was shocked - shocked - it wasn't him. The resemblance was uncanny and it turns out the guy's name was remarkably similiar (Greg instead of George)(but we know George is only your stage name). So, Mr. Tomassi, I met your doppelganger, although you can never meet him because that would cancel you out.

(And no, guys, I'm not on Rollo's myspace.)
 

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You know, I occasionally get Mark Wahlberg-ed too,..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I didn't know the legendary Green Bay Packers quarterback was also the most insightful SS poster.
 
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