"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rites of passage

Peak

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Next time you stop to think whether you should ask for a girls number remember this:

Like all other parts of our lives we need to pass certain rites of passage before we can step to the next stage. For example you have to finish high school before you can go to Uni. It's the same with women.

You have to learn the DJ techniques by applying them. You can't keep making excuses. Some people attain goals easier than others, so maybe they only need to ask for 20 girls numbers before getting a girlfriend. Others may need to ask for 100 numbers before it happens.

What is your magic number? Who knows.

What I do know is that the quicker you get the process going the faster you will achieve your goal and the more you will enjoy the whole process.

One day you'll look back and think...I'm glad I had so much fun when I was young and that I had to guts to go with my dreams.

Good luck.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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tomazu

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exactly! you should be glad to make as much as experience as you can as long as you're young! and you also should think about this: it is better to already have the experience when miss right will come around :-D

ciao t
 

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Getting to Cold Approach, or how I learned to stop worrying and love the bomb

Cold approaching is a lot of fun. The more I do it the better it becomes. It's like a roller coaster, before I was scared of them, but now I love to feel that high. I took the plunge!
 
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