"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Rites of passage

Peak

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Next time you stop to think whether you should ask for a girls number remember this:

Like all other parts of our lives we need to pass certain rites of passage before we can step to the next stage. For example you have to finish high school before you can go to Uni. It's the same with women.

You have to learn the DJ techniques by applying them. You can't keep making excuses. Some people attain goals easier than others, so maybe they only need to ask for 20 girls numbers before getting a girlfriend. Others may need to ask for 100 numbers before it happens.

What is your magic number? Who knows.

What I do know is that the quicker you get the process going the faster you will achieve your goal and the more you will enjoy the whole process.

One day you'll look back and think...I'm glad I had so much fun when I was young and that I had to guts to go with my dreams.

Good luck.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tomazu

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exactly! you should be glad to make as much as experience as you can as long as you're young! and you also should think about this: it is better to already have the experience when miss right will come around :-D

ciao t
 

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Getting to Cold Approach, or how I learned to stop worrying and love the bomb

Cold approaching is a lot of fun. The more I do it the better it becomes. It's like a roller coaster, before I was scared of them, but now I love to feel that high. I took the plunge!
 
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