"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Rites of passage

Peak

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Next time you stop to think whether you should ask for a girls number remember this:

Like all other parts of our lives we need to pass certain rites of passage before we can step to the next stage. For example you have to finish high school before you can go to Uni. It's the same with women.

You have to learn the DJ techniques by applying them. You can't keep making excuses. Some people attain goals easier than others, so maybe they only need to ask for 20 girls numbers before getting a girlfriend. Others may need to ask for 100 numbers before it happens.

What is your magic number? Who knows.

What I do know is that the quicker you get the process going the faster you will achieve your goal and the more you will enjoy the whole process.

One day you'll look back and think...I'm glad I had so much fun when I was young and that I had to guts to go with my dreams.

Good luck.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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tomazu

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exactly! you should be glad to make as much as experience as you can as long as you're young! and you also should think about this: it is better to already have the experience when miss right will come around :-D

ciao t
 

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Getting to Cold Approach, or how I learned to stop worrying and love the bomb

Cold approaching is a lot of fun. The more I do it the better it becomes. It's like a roller coaster, before I was scared of them, but now I love to feel that high. I took the plunge!
 
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