"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rites of passage

Peak

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Next time you stop to think whether you should ask for a girls number remember this:

Like all other parts of our lives we need to pass certain rites of passage before we can step to the next stage. For example you have to finish high school before you can go to Uni. It's the same with women.

You have to learn the DJ techniques by applying them. You can't keep making excuses. Some people attain goals easier than others, so maybe they only need to ask for 20 girls numbers before getting a girlfriend. Others may need to ask for 100 numbers before it happens.

What is your magic number? Who knows.

What I do know is that the quicker you get the process going the faster you will achieve your goal and the more you will enjoy the whole process.

One day you'll look back and think...I'm glad I had so much fun when I was young and that I had to guts to go with my dreams.

Good luck.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tomazu

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exactly! you should be glad to make as much as experience as you can as long as you're young! and you also should think about this: it is better to already have the experience when miss right will come around :-D

ciao t
 

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Getting to Cold Approach, or how I learned to stop worrying and love the bomb

Cold approaching is a lot of fun. The more I do it the better it becomes. It's like a roller coaster, before I was scared of them, but now I love to feel that high. I took the plunge!
 
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