"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Risk telling the truth?
- Thread starter chris2for
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Tictac
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How long have you been 'seeing' her?
A few months. I've been kind of taking things super slow and I think she's been picking up on that.
Tictac
Banned
If she begins to bring up exclusivity, that's taking is 'super slow'. You are already there.
I wouldn't be telling her anything like that.
Ask yourself 'what good will happen next' if you do.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Well I don't mean making it exclusive right now but I can see that she's a good catch. I wanted to say "I know I've been dragging my feet but it's because I'm still trying to mentally get over my ex and I just wanted to let you know that". How does that sound?
Tictac
Banned
Terrible.
Dragging your feet about what? Exclusivity.
Until she brings it up, you job is to "Hang out, have fun and hook up".
She is not your therapist. And if you try to make her your therapist, you won't have her to worry about.
If you want her pvssy to dry up and her interest level to drop then sure go ahead and tell her..
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"Getting over an ex" is for women to worry about. Men move forward with their life and don't look back.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.