"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Risk telling the truth?
- Thread starter chris2for
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Tictac
Banned
How long have you been 'seeing' her?
A few months. I've been kind of taking things super slow and I think she's been picking up on that.
Tictac
Banned
If she begins to bring up exclusivity, that's taking is 'super slow'. You are already there.
I wouldn't be telling her anything like that.
Ask yourself 'what good will happen next' if you do.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Well I don't mean making it exclusive right now but I can see that she's a good catch. I wanted to say "I know I've been dragging my feet but it's because I'm still trying to mentally get over my ex and I just wanted to let you know that". How does that sound?
Tictac
Banned
Terrible.
Dragging your feet about what? Exclusivity.
Until she brings it up, you job is to "Hang out, have fun and hook up".
She is not your therapist. And if you try to make her your therapist, you won't have her to worry about.
If you want her pvssy to dry up and her interest level to drop then sure go ahead and tell her..
marmel75
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"Getting over an ex" is for women to worry about. Men move forward with their life and don't look back.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.