I posted my reply here because other users may have read your post and might have wondered the same thing. Therefore, I posted my reply here to allow them to read my explanation. I PM'd you so that you could receive my message in case you did not revisit the board.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Revise Your Policy On Sex Advice!
- Thread starter MVPlaya
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
SoSuave.com
Administrator
Thanks for the suggestions. You're quite an idea man there, MVPlaya.
We DO take all suggestions seriously around here, despite what some may think. But we won't be changing the policy at this time. There are reasons that I don't really want to go into.
By the way, the reason most mods do not immediately respond to suggestions here is because most have been made dozens of times before. We've all discussed them and decided against them for one reason or another.
But policies change, so you never know.
We DO take all suggestions seriously around here, despite what some may think. But we won't be changing the policy at this time. There are reasons that I don't really want to go into.
By the way, the reason most mods do not immediately respond to suggestions here is because most have been made dozens of times before. We've all discussed them and decided against them for one reason or another.
But policies change, so you never know.
Ok. Can I lie about it? I DID GO OUT AND HAD AN ONE NIGHT STAND! It was a great experience. She was an 8-9. She had a beautiful body and handsized breasts. Her pussy was very wet when I fingered her.After that we had great sex. We lasted 30 minutes. I also wanted to eat her out after she gave me a blowjob in the morning but I was still too tired.
Man, if you are not sh!tting here that's maybe the shortest go help yourself talk I've had to anyone.
Anyways great for you brother!
Keep up the good work.
I hope you used some protection as well...
One last thing.
Going around the censor system may not be wise when you post right below Allen!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I had been under the impression that this was a site about meeting, dating and attracting women. I had thought that "how to have sex" type information was beyond the scope of what the site was all about.
From the replies here about segregating this type of information, my gut tells me that people want to use the sex information more so than the meeting/attracting skills. Personally I think it will make the board feel more like the "10 ways to get a woman to sleep with you on the first date" type sites. Plus I think a lot of the information that would be posted would be by people looking to self glorify themselves.
It should also be considered how the site is perceived by the hosting company and the rest of the web if the site had specific sections about sex. Could it be perceived as a adult porn site? Could it be sued because the sex information would be available to anyone no matter their age? I don't know but I'd be damn pissed if that would happen.
I think that there are enough "how to" sex sites on the web and it wouldn't be necessary for that type of information on this site. I think Sosuave has gone out of his way to allow this type of information on the site so the least we could do is accept where ever he decides to put it.
From the replies here about segregating this type of information, my gut tells me that people want to use the sex information more so than the meeting/attracting skills. Personally I think it will make the board feel more like the "10 ways to get a woman to sleep with you on the first date" type sites. Plus I think a lot of the information that would be posted would be by people looking to self glorify themselves.
It should also be considered how the site is perceived by the hosting company and the rest of the web if the site had specific sections about sex. Could it be perceived as a adult porn site? Could it be sued because the sex information would be available to anyone no matter their age? I don't know but I'd be damn pissed if that would happen.
I think that there are enough "how to" sex sites on the web and it wouldn't be necessary for that type of information on this site. I think Sosuave has gone out of his way to allow this type of information on the site so the least we could do is accept where ever he decides to put it.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
damn thats makes a hell of a lot of sense
also u dont need a forum for sex jus go read the kama sutra
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
Having a seperate section would be the best
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Superman X
Banned
I find it ironic that this site teaches men to be open and not ashamed of their sexuality, but a thread about sex is dumped in the crapbucket of Anything Else.
Allen, you've done a great thing with the site here, but I think this policy is a mistake.
-Dan
Allen, you've done a great thing with the site here, but I think this policy is a mistake.
-Dan