I posted my reply here because other users may have read your post and might have wondered the same thing. Therefore, I posted my reply here to allow them to read my explanation. I PM'd you so that you could receive my message in case you did not revisit the board.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Revise Your Policy On Sex Advice!
- Thread starter MVPlaya
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
SoSuave.com
Administrator
Thanks for the suggestions. You're quite an idea man there, MVPlaya.
We DO take all suggestions seriously around here, despite what some may think. But we won't be changing the policy at this time. There are reasons that I don't really want to go into.
By the way, the reason most mods do not immediately respond to suggestions here is because most have been made dozens of times before. We've all discussed them and decided against them for one reason or another.
But policies change, so you never know.
We DO take all suggestions seriously around here, despite what some may think. But we won't be changing the policy at this time. There are reasons that I don't really want to go into.
By the way, the reason most mods do not immediately respond to suggestions here is because most have been made dozens of times before. We've all discussed them and decided against them for one reason or another.
But policies change, so you never know.
Ok. Can I lie about it? I DID GO OUT AND HAD AN ONE NIGHT STAND! It was a great experience. She was an 8-9. She had a beautiful body and handsized breasts. Her pussy was very wet when I fingered her.After that we had great sex. We lasted 30 minutes. I also wanted to eat her out after she gave me a blowjob in the morning but I was still too tired.
Man, if you are not sh!tting here that's maybe the shortest go help yourself talk I've had to anyone.
Anyways great for you brother!
Keep up the good work.
I hope you used some protection as well...
One last thing.
Going around the censor system may not be wise when you post right below Allen!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I had been under the impression that this was a site about meeting, dating and attracting women. I had thought that "how to have sex" type information was beyond the scope of what the site was all about.
From the replies here about segregating this type of information, my gut tells me that people want to use the sex information more so than the meeting/attracting skills. Personally I think it will make the board feel more like the "10 ways to get a woman to sleep with you on the first date" type sites. Plus I think a lot of the information that would be posted would be by people looking to self glorify themselves.
It should also be considered how the site is perceived by the hosting company and the rest of the web if the site had specific sections about sex. Could it be perceived as a adult porn site? Could it be sued because the sex information would be available to anyone no matter their age? I don't know but I'd be damn pissed if that would happen.
I think that there are enough "how to" sex sites on the web and it wouldn't be necessary for that type of information on this site. I think Sosuave has gone out of his way to allow this type of information on the site so the least we could do is accept where ever he decides to put it.
From the replies here about segregating this type of information, my gut tells me that people want to use the sex information more so than the meeting/attracting skills. Personally I think it will make the board feel more like the "10 ways to get a woman to sleep with you on the first date" type sites. Plus I think a lot of the information that would be posted would be by people looking to self glorify themselves.
It should also be considered how the site is perceived by the hosting company and the rest of the web if the site had specific sections about sex. Could it be perceived as a adult porn site? Could it be sued because the sex information would be available to anyone no matter their age? I don't know but I'd be damn pissed if that would happen.
I think that there are enough "how to" sex sites on the web and it wouldn't be necessary for that type of information on this site. I think Sosuave has gone out of his way to allow this type of information on the site so the least we could do is accept where ever he decides to put it.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
damn thats makes a hell of a lot of sense
also u dont need a forum for sex jus go read the kama sutra
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
Having a seperate section would be the best
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Superman X
Banned
I find it ironic that this site teaches men to be open and not ashamed of their sexuality, but a thread about sex is dumped in the crapbucket of Anything Else.
Allen, you've done a great thing with the site here, but I think this policy is a mistake.
-Dan
Allen, you've done a great thing with the site here, but I think this policy is a mistake.
-Dan