"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Revise Your Policy On Sex Advice!

Should SEX TIPS fall under the Don Juan TIPS section?

  • Yes, they should be under TIPS

    Votes: 15 38.5%
  • No, they should be under Anything Else

    Votes: 2 5.1%
  • No, they should have a separate section

    Votes: 22 56.4%

  • Total voters
    39

MVPlaya

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Originally posted by Nocturnal
i got the PM before i saw this. i didn't see a good reason for posting it as well, and thought maybe you would like to give me one.
I posted my reply here because other users may have read your post and might have wondered the same thing. Therefore, I posted my reply here to allow them to read my explanation. I PM'd you so that you could receive my message in case you did not revisit the board.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hot Ice

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Originally posted by Crusader
I don't want a prostitute!:(
Wrong answer dammit!!
A Don Juan wouldn't say that.
DJ goes out there and get's laid.
OK?
 

SoSuave.com

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Thanks for the suggestions. You're quite an idea man there, MVPlaya.

We DO take all suggestions seriously around here, despite what some may think. But we won't be changing the policy at this time. There are reasons that I don't really want to go into.

By the way, the reason most mods do not immediately respond to suggestions here is because most have been made dozens of times before. We've all discussed them and decided against them for one reason or another.

But policies change, so you never know.
 

Crusader

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Originally posted by Hot Ice
Wrong answer dammit!!
A Don Juan wouldn't say that.
DJ goes out there and get's laid.
OK?
Ok. Can I lie about it? I DID GO OUT AND HAD AN ONE NIGHT STAND! It was a great experience. She was an 8-9. She had a beautiful body and handsized breasts. Her pussy was very wet when I fingered her.After that we had great sex. We lasted 30 minutes. I also wanted to eat her out after she gave me a blowjob in the morning but I was still too tired.
 

Hot Ice

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Originally posted by Crusader
Ok. Can I lie about it? I DID GO OUT AND HAD AN ONE NIGHT STAND! It was a great experience. She was an 8-9. She had a beautiful body and handsized breasts. Her pussy was very wet when I fingered her.After that we had great sex. We lasted 30 minutes. I also wanted to eat her out after she gave me a blowjob in the morning but I was still too tired.
Man, if you are not sh!tting here that's maybe the shortest go help yourself talk I've had to anyone. ;)
Anyways great for you brother!
Keep up the good work.
I hope you used some protection as well...

One last thing.
Going around the censor system may not be wise when you post right below Allen! :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I had been under the impression that this was a site about meeting, dating and attracting women. I had thought that "how to have sex" type information was beyond the scope of what the site was all about.

From the replies here about segregating this type of information, my gut tells me that people want to use the sex information more so than the meeting/attracting skills. Personally I think it will make the board feel more like the "10 ways to get a woman to sleep with you on the first date" type sites. Plus I think a lot of the information that would be posted would be by people looking to self glorify themselves.

It should also be considered how the site is perceived by the hosting company and the rest of the web if the site had specific sections about sex. Could it be perceived as a adult porn site? Could it be sued because the sex information would be available to anyone no matter their age? I don't know but I'd be damn pissed if that would happen.

I think that there are enough "how to" sex sites on the web and it wouldn't be necessary for that type of information on this site. I think Sosuave has gone out of his way to allow this type of information on the site so the least we could do is accept where ever he decides to put it.
 

Hot Ice

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Originally posted by GigaloDJ
I'd make lots of threads if we had a sex forum.
Yeah, me too.
That would be some REAL field experimenting...



EDIT:

Oh by the way 7.29 posts per day is lot of posts already... :rolleyes:
 
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drixsa

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I had been under the impression that this was a site about meeting, dating and attracting women. I had thought that "how to have sex" type information was beyond the scope of what the site was all about.

From the replies here about segregating this type of information, my gut tells me that people want to use the sex information more so than the meeting/attracting skills. Personally I think it will make the board feel more like the "10 ways to get a woman to sleep with you on the first date" type sites. Plus I think a lot of the information that would be posted would be by people looking to self glorify themselves.

It should also be considered how the site is perceived by the hosting company and the rest of the web if the site had specific sections about sex. Could it be perceived as a adult porn site? Could it be sued because the sex information would be available to anyone no matter their age? I don't know but I'd be damn pissed if that would happen.

I think that there are enough "how to" sex sites on the web and it wouldn't be necessary for that type of information on this site. I think Sosuave has gone out of his way to allow this type of information on the site so the least we could do is accept where ever he decides to put it.
damn thats makes a hell of a lot of sense

also u dont need a forum for sex jus go read the kama sutra
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Superman X

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I find it ironic that this site teaches men to be open and not ashamed of their sexuality, but a thread about sex is dumped in the crapbucket of Anything Else.

Allen, you've done a great thing with the site here, but I think this policy is a mistake.

-Dan
 
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