I posted my reply here because other users may have read your post and might have wondered the same thing. Therefore, I posted my reply here to allow them to read my explanation. I PM'd you so that you could receive my message in case you did not revisit the board.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Revise Your Policy On Sex Advice!
- Thread starter MVPlaya
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
SoSuave.com
Administrator
Thanks for the suggestions. You're quite an idea man there, MVPlaya.
We DO take all suggestions seriously around here, despite what some may think. But we won't be changing the policy at this time. There are reasons that I don't really want to go into.
By the way, the reason most mods do not immediately respond to suggestions here is because most have been made dozens of times before. We've all discussed them and decided against them for one reason or another.
But policies change, so you never know.
We DO take all suggestions seriously around here, despite what some may think. But we won't be changing the policy at this time. There are reasons that I don't really want to go into.
By the way, the reason most mods do not immediately respond to suggestions here is because most have been made dozens of times before. We've all discussed them and decided against them for one reason or another.
But policies change, so you never know.
Ok. Can I lie about it? I DID GO OUT AND HAD AN ONE NIGHT STAND! It was a great experience. She was an 8-9. She had a beautiful body and handsized breasts. Her pussy was very wet when I fingered her.After that we had great sex. We lasted 30 minutes. I also wanted to eat her out after she gave me a blowjob in the morning but I was still too tired.
Man, if you are not sh!tting here that's maybe the shortest go help yourself talk I've had to anyone.
Anyways great for you brother!
Keep up the good work.
I hope you used some protection as well...
One last thing.
Going around the censor system may not be wise when you post right below Allen!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I had been under the impression that this was a site about meeting, dating and attracting women. I had thought that "how to have sex" type information was beyond the scope of what the site was all about.
From the replies here about segregating this type of information, my gut tells me that people want to use the sex information more so than the meeting/attracting skills. Personally I think it will make the board feel more like the "10 ways to get a woman to sleep with you on the first date" type sites. Plus I think a lot of the information that would be posted would be by people looking to self glorify themselves.
It should also be considered how the site is perceived by the hosting company and the rest of the web if the site had specific sections about sex. Could it be perceived as a adult porn site? Could it be sued because the sex information would be available to anyone no matter their age? I don't know but I'd be damn pissed if that would happen.
I think that there are enough "how to" sex sites on the web and it wouldn't be necessary for that type of information on this site. I think Sosuave has gone out of his way to allow this type of information on the site so the least we could do is accept where ever he decides to put it.
From the replies here about segregating this type of information, my gut tells me that people want to use the sex information more so than the meeting/attracting skills. Personally I think it will make the board feel more like the "10 ways to get a woman to sleep with you on the first date" type sites. Plus I think a lot of the information that would be posted would be by people looking to self glorify themselves.
It should also be considered how the site is perceived by the hosting company and the rest of the web if the site had specific sections about sex. Could it be perceived as a adult porn site? Could it be sued because the sex information would be available to anyone no matter their age? I don't know but I'd be damn pissed if that would happen.
I think that there are enough "how to" sex sites on the web and it wouldn't be necessary for that type of information on this site. I think Sosuave has gone out of his way to allow this type of information on the site so the least we could do is accept where ever he decides to put it.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
damn thats makes a hell of a lot of sense
also u dont need a forum for sex jus go read the kama sutra
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
Having a seperate section would be the best
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Superman X
Banned
I find it ironic that this site teaches men to be open and not ashamed of their sexuality, but a thread about sex is dumped in the crapbucket of Anything Else.
Allen, you've done a great thing with the site here, but I think this policy is a mistake.
-Dan
Allen, you've done a great thing with the site here, but I think this policy is a mistake.
-Dan